Enjoy your LIFE!

Seafood Spaghetti

2011-10-03T13:31:00.003+02:00

For 3 portions

Ingredients:
Oil (depend on how many onions and garlics)
Onion and Garlic (minced)
370g Tomaten alGusto (Kräuter)
200g Whipped cream
1pack Spaghetti noodles
5stick surimi crab (oblique cut) and several pieces of salmon (or other seafood, depend on your preferences)
Approx. 4tsp Sugar
Approx. 2tsp Salt
Pepper

Instructions:
Prepare spaghetti according to package directions.
Heat the oil over medium heat. Add onion and garlic and cook until light brown, stirring occasionally. Stir the tomato and whipped cream. Mix well. Add sugar and salt (depend on each preferences) with comparison sugar have to more than salt.
Stir the seafoods and cook until the seafoods are cooked through. Serve the seafood mixture over the spaghetti. Sprinkle a little bit pepper on the spaghetti before serving.

Portuguese Egg Custard Tarts

2011-09-17T15:41:00.003+02:00

I had tried this recipe before. It is quite tasty.. :)

more information go to www.cookingandme.com

Donut Keledek

2011-09-17T15:37:00.003+02:00

Ingredients:
320 grams flour (a bit more if the dough is too sticky)
2 tsp yeast
1/2 tsp salt
150 grms mashed sweet potatoes
3 tbsp sugar
30 grms butter
100 ml water

For coating
Some sugar

Methods

In a large mixing bowl mix all the ingredients together and knead for about 6-7 minutes until you get nice smooth dough. Add some extra flour if it’s so sticky. Cover the bowl with a dry kitchen towel and let it rise for an hour or double it size at a warm place.
Punch down the dough and remove onto a floured work tabletop. Roll out the dough to about 1/4" thick and cut the dough out into rounds with a donuts cutter. Gather the snaps and re-roll, then cut out more donuts.

Place donuts on parchment paper,cover and let rise for 20 minutes or until they feel light and spongy.
Heat oil for deep-frying in a frying pan over medium heat. Slip a few donuts into the oil at a time, leaving enough room for them to expand. Make sure that the oil is not too hot otherwise the donuts will not be cooked.
When the donuts are golden brown, turn them over and cook the other side. It takes about 2–3 minutes to cook through. When donuts are done, remove from oil and drain the oil on paper towels before rolling them in sugar.

Source: yatiememories.blogspot.com

Bolu Kukus / Steamed Sponge Cake

2011-09-17T15:20:00.001+02:00

Ingredients:
2 eggs
1 1/2 cups sugar
300g all-purpose flour
100g rice flour
1 1/2 cups of coconut milk (or 1 1/2 cups of orange juice if you don't like coconut milk)
1/2 pack backing powder
a bit drop of unflavour-dye

Instructions:
1. Mix eggs and sugar in a large bowl and mix it with the flour (already mixed with backing powder) and 1/2 portion of coconut milk until they make a smooth batter.

2. Add rice flour and the rest coconut milk. Mix well.

3. Add the colour and mix it well.

4. Cover approx. 12 tin cups used to steam cake (see pic below) with parchment papers then put them into a steamer pot with boiling water.

5. Pour the batter into the tin almost to the top. Do this untill all the batter is used up.

6. Close the steamer lid, let it steamed für approximately 15 minutes with high temperature. Get out the cakes and ready to serve.

N.B :
- Remember to steam the cake with boiled water. You can boil the water during preparation.
- Never open the steamer lid before the time.

2NE1-Lonely

2011-09-09T14:34:00.000+02:00

[CL]
Jigeum naega haneun yaegi
Neol apeuge halji molla
Ama nal jukdorok miwohage doel kkeoya
[Minzy]
Naega yejeon gatji antadeon ne mal
Modu teullin mareun aniya
Nado byeonhaebeorin naega nat seolgimanhae

[Dara]
Neomu chakhan neonde neon geudaeroinde Oh
[CL]
I don't know I don't know
Naega wae ireoneunji
[Dara]
Geutorok saranghaenneunde neon yeogi inneunde Oh
[Minzy]
I don't know
[Dara]
Ije nal chatgo sipeo

[Bom]
Baby I'm sorry neowa isseodo nan lonely
Saranghagin naega bujokhanga bwa
Ireon motnan nal yongseohae
[Minzy]
I'm sorry ige neowa naui story
Sarangiran naegen gwabunhanga bwa
Ne gyeote isseodo

Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
[Bom]
Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
[CL]
Nega jalmotan ge anya
Naega isanghan geoya
Imi orae jeonbuteo nan junbi haenna bwa ibyeoreul
[Bom]
Jeongmal jalhaejugo sipeonneunde
Hapil sarang apeseoneun wae
Ireoke haneobsi jagajigo oerounji

[Dara]
Neomu chakhan neonde neon geudaeroinde Oh
[CL]
I don't know I don't know
Naega wae ireoneunji
[Dara]
Geutorok saranghaenneunde neon yeogi inneunde Oh
[Bom]
I don't know
[Dara]Ije nal chatgo sipeo

[CL]
Baby I'm sorry neowa isseodo nan lonely
Saranghagin naega bujokhanga bwa
Ireon motnan nal yongseohae
[Minzy]
I'm sorry ige neowa naui story
Sarangiran naegen gwabunhanga bwa
Ne gyeote isseodo

Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
[CL]
Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely

[Minzy]
Cuz I'm just another girl
I bami werowo nan
[Bom]
Deoneun gyeondil su eobseo good bye
[Dara]
Cuz I'm just another girl
[CL]
Neomuna werowo
[Bom]
Jigeum ne gyeote isseodo baby I'm so lonely

[Minzy]
Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
[CL]
Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I'm so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely.

English Translation:
The words I’m saying right now, I don’t know if they’ll hurt you
They’ll probably make you hate me forever
You, saying that I’m not the same as I used to be, is not completely untrue
This changed me is a stranger to myself as well
You are so kind but
That’s the way you are but oh
I don’t know I don’t know
Why I am like this
We were so in love, and you’re here now but oh
I don’t know
I want to find myself now

Baby I’m sorry, even when I’m with you, I’m Lonely
I must be lacking when it comes to love, please forgive this person horrible person I am
I’m sorry, this is your and my story
I must not be worthy of this thing called love, even though I’m by your side

Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely

You didn’t do anything wrong, I’m the strange one
It seems I’ve already been prepared long ago, for our breakup
I really wanted to treat you well, out of all the times, why is it when I’m confronted by love
I am shrinking away & am lonely endlessly
You are so kind but
That’s the way you are but oh
I don’t know I don’t know
Why I am like this
We were so in love, and you’re here now but oh
I don’t know
I want to find myself now

Baby I’m sorry, even when I’m with you, I’m Lonely
I must be lacking when it comes to love, please forgive this person horrible person I am
I’m sorry, this is your and my story
I must not be worthy of this thing called love, even though I’m by your side
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely

Cuz I’m just another girl
This night is lonely, I
Can’t take any more, Good bye
Cuz I’m just another girl
I’m so lonely
Even though I’m by your side right now
Baby I’m so lonely
Lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely

Monday Kiz~Goodbye My Princess

2011-09-09T13:46:00.000+02:00

Good bye good bye my princess
ijen neoreul bonaelge nalgaereul pyeogo jeo haneul nopi naraga
Good bye good bye my princess
hajiman gieokhaejwo oraedorok neol jikyeojudeon nareul good bye

dorabomyeon soneul naemildeon geon eonjena nayeosseo neoneun kkumman kkuji
wae naege niga kkuneun kkumen nae jarin eopdago geuri swipge malhani

suljane gidae jineun haessari nunbusyeo
sure chwihae tteoreojin nunmuri nunbusyeo
uljima uljima neol ulligin sirheo
suljane gidae jineun haessari nunbusyeo
sure chwihae tteoreojin nunmuri nunbusyeo
uljima uljima geurae neol wihaeseo
nan geuraeya geuraeyaman handamyeon
Good bye good bye my princess
ijen neoreul bonaelge nalgaereul pyeogo jeo haneul nopi naraga
Good bye good bye my princess
hajiman gieokhaejwo oraedorok neol jikyeojudeon nareul good bye

suljane gidae jineun haessari nunbusyeo
sure chwihae tteoreojin nunmuri nunbusyeo
uljima uljima neol ulligin sirheo
suljane gidae jineun haessari nunbusyeo
sure chwihae tteoreojin nunmuri nunbusyeo
uljima uljima geurae neol wihaeseo
nan geuraeya geuraeyaman handamyeon

Good bye good bye my princess
ijen neoreul bonaelge nalgaereul pyeogo jeo haneul nopi naraga
Good bye good bye my princess
hajiman gieokhaejwo oraedorok neol jikyeojudeon nareul

saranghae, saranghae, naui Princess
neoreul bonaelge nalgaereul pyeogo jeo haneul nopi naraga
good bye, good bye, my love
hajiman gieokhaejwo yeojeonhi neoreul gidarineun nareul saranghae

English Translation:
Goodbye goodbye my princess
I'll let you go now
Spread your wings and fly to the sky
Goodbye goodbye my princess
But please remember me
Who protected you all this time
Goodbye

When I look back,
the one who always held out his hand was me
All you do is dream
Why do you so easily tell me
that there's not room for me in your dreams

The sunlight that's shining upon the wine glass is dazzling
The tears that fall down from your intoxicated self are dazzling
Don't cry, dont' cry
I don't want to make you cry
The sunlight that's shining upon the wine glass is dazzling
The tears that fall down from your intoxicated self are dazzling
Don't cry, dont' cry
If it's for you...
If it's what I have to do...

Goodbye goodbye my princess
I'll let you go now
Spread your wings and fly to the sky
Goodbye goodbye my princess
But please remember me
Who protected you all this time
Goodbye

The sunlight that's shining upon the wine glass is dazzling
The tears that fall down from your intoxicated self are dazzling
Don't cry, dont' cry
I don't want to make you cry
The sunlight that's shining upon the wine glass is dazzling
The tears that fall down from your intoxicated self are dazzling
Don't cry, dont' cry
If it's for you...
If it's what I have to do...

Goodbye goodbye my princess
I'll let you go now
Spread your wings and fly to the sky
Goodbye goodbye my princess
But please remember me
Who protected you all this time

I love you, I love you, my princess
I'll let you go
Spread your wings and fly to the sky
goodbye, goodbye, my love
But please remember me
Who will always be waiting for you
I love you

Maddi Jane-Price Tag

2011-09-08T19:36:00.001+02:00

Seems like everybodys got a price,
I wonder how they sleep at night.
When the sale comes first,
And the truth comes second,
Just stop, for a minute and smile.

Why is everybody so serious!
Acting so damn mysterious
You got your shades on your eyes
And your heels so high
That you can't even have a good
Time.

[Pre-chorus:]
Everybody look to their left (ha)
Everybody look to their right
Can you feel that (yeah)
We're paying with love tonight

[Chorus:]

It's not about the money, money, money
We don't need your money, money, money
We just wanna make the world dance,
Forget about the Price Tag.

Ain't about the (ha) Cha-Ching Cha-Ching.
Ain't about the (yeah) Ba-Bling Ba-Bling
Wanna make the world dance,
Forget about the Price Tag.
------------------------------------------------
We need to take it back in time,
When music made us all UNITE!
And it wasn't low blows and video Hoes,
Am I the only one gettin... tired?

Why is everybody so obsessed?
Money can't buy us happiness
Can we all slow down and enjoy right now
Gurantee we'll be feelin
All right

Original song sang by Jessie J

田馥甄-還是要幸福

2011-09-08T19:27:00.000+02:00

不確定就別親吻感情很容易毀了一個人
一個人若不夠狠愛淡了不離不棄多殘忍

你留下來的垃圾我一天一天總會丟完的
我甚至真心真意的祝福永恆在你的身上先發生

你還是要幸福你千萬不要再招惹別人哭
所有錯誤從我這裏落幕別跟著我銘心刻骨

你還是要幸福我才能確定我還得很清楚
確定自己再也不會佔據你的篇幅
明天開始這一切都結束

還我鑰匙的備份我覺得再見可以很單純
我甚至真心真意的祝福永恆在你的身上先發生

你還是要幸福你千萬不要再招惹別人哭
所有錯誤從我這裏落幕別跟著我銘心刻骨

你還是要幸福我才能確定我還得很清楚
確定自己再也不會佔據你的篇幅
明天開始這一切都結束

你還是要幸福你千萬不要再招惹別人哭
所有錯誤從我這裏落幕別跟著我銘心刻骨

你如果很幸福半夜的簡訊我就無需回覆
因為你的悲喜已經有了容身之處我也能有最純粹的孤獨

最孤獨的孤獨

Pfirsich-Maracuja Torte / Peach-Passion Fruit Cake

2011-09-08T18:28:00.000+02:00

Für den All-in-Teig:
130g Weizenmehl
3 gestr. TL Dr. Oetker Backin
130g Zucker, 3 Eier (Größe M)
3 EL Maracujanektar
130g Butter oder Margarine

Für die Füllung:
2EL Aprikosenkonfitüre
1Dose Pfirsich
2Pck. Tortenguss, klar
40g Zucker
500ml Maracujasaft
500ml Schlagsahne
2Pck. Sahnesteif
1Pck. Vanillezucker

Für den Belag:
1Pck. Cremepulver (Aranca-Aprikose-Maracuja)
100ml Maracujasaft
100ml Pfirsichsaft
150g Joghurt

Zubereitung:
1. Den Backofen vorheizen. Für den Teig Mehl mit Backpulver in einer Rührschüssel mischen. Restliche Zutaten hinzufügen und alles mit Handrührgerät mit Rührbesen auf höchster Stufe in etwa 2 Minuten , einem glatten Teig verarbeiten. Teig in eine Springform (Ø 26cm, Boden gefettet, mit Backpapier belegt) füllen und verstreichen. Die Form auf dem rost in den vorgeheizten Backofen schieben.
Ober-/Unterhitze : etwa 180°C
Heißluft: etwa 160°C
Backzeit: etwa 25 Minuten.

2. Den Boden mit Konfitüre bestreichen. Für die Füllung Pfirsich auf einem Sieb abtropfen lassen, dabei den Saft auffangen und für den Belag 100ml Saft abmessen. Pfirsich im Würfel schneiden. Aus Tortenguss, Zucker und Maracujasaft nach Packungsaufschrift einen Guss zubereiten. Pfirsichwürfel unterheben, die Masse auf dem Tortenboden verteilen und erkalten lassen.
Sahne mit Sahnesteif und Vanillezucker steif schlagen und auf die Pfirsichmasse streichen.

3. Für den Belag Aranca nach Packungsaufschrift aber mit Maracujasaft, Pfirsichsaft und Joghurt anstelle von Wasser zubereiten, auf die Sahnemasse streichen. Die Torte etwa 60min. erkalten lassen.

N.B : a bit sour but delicious :D

Mencari makna uang yang sebenarnya

2011-09-08T17:35:00.000+02:00

Apa jawaban yang Anda berikan pada anak bila mereka bertanya, “Mengapa ayah atau ibu harus bekerja?” Lazim terjadi, kita sebagai orang tua berkata: “Mencari uang!” Jawaban ini tentu saja memang sangat logis dan masuk akal. Di sisi lain, tidakkah kita kemudian jadi tergelitik dengan jawaban tersebut?

Betulkah prioritas dan alasan kita bekerja membanting tulang dan memeras otak semata mencari uang? Bukankah kegiatan mencari uang bisa terdengar sumbang bila asalnya dari jumlah jutaan, milyaran, bahkan triliunan rupiah, yang dikorupsi atau direkayasa dengan cara “insider trading” dari oknum tertentu? Bila uang diperoleh tetapi kualitas hidup dan karakter pribadi tidak menjadi lebih baik, serta ada pihak-pihak yang dirugikan, masihkah bermakna kerja yang kita lakukan?

Banyak orang tidak bisa membayangkan untuk apa uang milyaran atau triliunan dimiliki dan bagaimana jumlah sebanyak itu dibelanjakan. Meski tidak selamanya makna mencari uang atau mengejar keuntungan sama dari individu yang satu ke yang lain, kita juga sering menyaksikan betapa orang di jaman sekarang tergila-gila pada uang. Orang yang "berada", bermobil keren, berdandan dengan barang-barang branded, diperlakukan dengan lebih direspek dan diberi ruang yang lebih terhormat. Orang-orang merasa kekurangan uang terus, dan mengeluarkan pernyataan bahwa kebutuhan tidak ada habisnya. Seolah-olah kita mencari alasan untuk bersikap materialis.

Kadang-kadang kita bingung sendiri mengapa kita terjebak dalam kultur ketamakan kolektif begini. Seorang ahli filsafat menggambarkan situasi sekarang sebagai berikut: "How much is enough, and why are people willing to risk so much to get more? If money is so alluring, how is it that so many people of great wealth also seem so unhappy?" (Berapa banyak yang disebut cukup itu, dan mengapa orang bersedia mengambil risiko untuk mendapat lebih banyak? Jika uang itu begitu memikat, mengapa begitu banyak orang yang kaya juga terlihat tidak bahagia?)

Di jaman di mana anak-anak muda berusia antara 20-30 tahun dengan mudah menjadi kaya raya, tantangan untuk mencari makna uang atau kepemilikan pun seakan semakin tidak diprioritaskan. Dengan tawaran-tawaran pinjaman tanpa agunan, janji-janji keuntungan reksadana, pinjaman KPR yang semakin dipermudah, gadget yang selalu baru, orang jadi lupa untuk mempertanyakan keberadaannya di dunia ini, apa misi dan tujuan hidupnya, apa makna hidup dan makna bekerja.

Padahal, seperti kita saksikan sendiri, uang bisa menjadi sumber malapetaka, ketimbang sumber daya untuk mengembangkan hubungan interpersonal dan memperkaya makna hidup. Kalau pada saat berkekurangan kita mencemaskan “besok mau makan apa?”, maka pada waktu berkecukupan kecemasannya berbentuk “bagaimana bila uang saya hilang?” Seorang profesor filsafat, Jacob Needleman mengatakan: “Being rich does not make you smart — especially about things other than money.” Bila kita tidak pernah memahami hubungan kita dengan uang dan harta, maka kita tidak pernah mengenal diri sendiri.

Sukses = banyak duit?
Istilah "jadi orang" yang sering digunakan oleh orang-orang tua kita dulu sebetulnya mengandung makna yang dalam. Di jaman dahulu, jelas "jadi orang" tidak selamanya berarti "jadi orang kaya". Jadi guru yang hidup sederhana pun sudah "jadi orang".

Sebetulnya, konsep sukses dari dulu dan bahkan sampai sekarang pun tidak bisa kita samakan dengan banyak uang saja. Orang bisa dikatakan sukses bila ia jelas-jelas menyadari dan menggunakan semua fungsi, semua bagian dan seluruh kapasitas dalam dirinya untuk kebaikan orang lain dan masyarakat, bukan semata untuk kepentingan dirinya pribadi. Dalam mengembangkan diri menjadi karakter yang utuh barulah seseorang bisa merasakan kenikmatan, perjuangan dan tantangan dalam bekerja.

Teman saya, seorang pengusaha dan pekerja keras yang memiliki perusahaan yang beromzet trilyunan pernah mengatakan: ”Saya tidak bisa membayangkan uang bermilyar-milyar dalam bentuk uang kertas. Hal yang saya kejar dan upayakan hanya prestasi.”

Seseorang yang mendapatkan promosi atau kenaikan gaji dengan berjuang keras dan berkompetisi dengan sesama rekan, memiliki pengalaman mengerahkan sumber daya, melatih nyali, bahkan menguji hati nurani. Kenikmatan hasil jerih payahnya ini tentu tidak semata karena akhirnya ia meraih jabatan atau uang, tetapi juga karena terjadi pematangan kepribadian. Lain halnya bila seseorang mendapatkan jabatan ataupun uang dengan cara gampang, bahkan tanpa usaha. Ia melewatkan kesempatan untuk berdialog dengan dirinya. Spiritnya tidak berkembang.

Demam masyarakat dalam dunia yang serba instan inilah yang mempengaruhi mental dan spirit kita semua. Kita sepertinya perlu mengembangkan “antibodi” agar tidak dijangkiti demam yang mematikan ini.

Kualitas kerja sebagai daya tarik
Kita memang tidak bisa menghindari kebutuhan kita akan uang. Terlepas dari kebutuhan orang untuk memenuhi rasa amannya melalui pemilikan rumah, kendaraan yang memadai untuk mendukung aktivitas sehari harinya, kita juga perlu merancang kualitas perbaikan kualitas hidup sambil jalan. Bila kita selama ini ingin lebih dan lebih, kita perlu memberi penekanan pada kualitasnya. Bukan sekadar berjuang demi bonus, tetapi bekerja demi merasakan kebahagiaan kerja bersama. Bukan sekadar berkompetisi dengan melihat hasil akhir tetapi justru memahami mengapa orang lain lebih bijak, lebih berkualitas kerja, dan lebih efisien. Dalam iming-iming mengajak calon pekerja untuk bergabung, bukan gaji besar yang ditonjolkan tetapi bagaimana suasana kerja, hubungan antar karyawan dan apresiasi yang dipentingkan.

Kita rasanya tidak perlu merasa kalah bersaing secara finansial, kalau saja kita tahu betul bagaimana mengupayakan agar para pekerja diarahkan untuk melakukan kualitas kerja yang lebih baik. Dalam hal ini pasti upah akan menjadi konsekuensi positifnya.

copied from kompas.comon June 3rd 2011

FT Island - Treasure

2011-01-18T20:29:00.003+01:00

Love thiZ song so much..

Orenai hokori namida afureta ano hi
Mamorinuita hikari

Kigatsukeba hi wa kure itamu kutsudzure
Madamada hashireru nante iji wo hatte misete
Nanjuukai, hora nanbyakukai korogeta nara tachiagari
Mata sukoshi dakedo mirai ni chikadzuku

Niawanai aiso warai okuba de gutto kuyashisa wo kotae nagara
Oborodzukiyo iza ikiyou uso itsuwari no naki jibun no mune ni chikai wo tatete

Hitomi wo toji, kokoro wo sumashi, ookina sono DOA wo saa hirakou!
Koko ni tatsu kyou no tame ni umare aruite kita sou shinjite...

Sugite yuku kisetsu ni aseri ga tsunori
Dareka to kurabete mite mo imi nanka nai no ni...
Hodokenai, iroasenai yakusoku ga kokoro ni aru
Wakachi au toki ga mirai de matteru

Maichiru kanashimi ni tsubure sou na yume hisshi de kakae nagara
Ttada massugu hora, mousugu kono michi no saki ni yuiitsu muni no hana ga saku darou

Yozora wo irodoru, boku-tachi no towa naru negai wo ima kanaeyou
Kagayakeru asu no tame ni umare aruite kita sou shinjite...

Hitomi wo toji, kokoro wo sumashi, ookina sono DOA wo saa hirakou!
Koko ni tatsu kyou no tame ni umare aruite kita sou shinjite...
Orenai hokori namida afureta ano hi
Mamorinuita hikari subete ga boku no Treasure

English translation
My pride didn't break when the tears overflew
At that day I wanted to protect the light to the end

When I realized the sun got dark
Though my feet hurt
But I still ran, never giving in
If I rolled over ten or hundred times I'll rise
Since I'm getting closer to the future a little bit again

That insincere smile doesn't suit you
With your molars you resisted the distress firmly
Let's live in the moonlight night now
Without a fabricated lie I built an vow within my chest

Close your eyes, clear your heart, and let's open that huge door!
Standing here, you were born to walk for today's sake
Believe me....

In the passing season my impatience grew stronger
That I even seemed to compare myself to others
Though it's meaningless to do so...
It won't come apart, it won't fade, because of the promise within my heart
The time we will share together is waiting for us in the future

While I embrace the dream seems to be
Smashed by the fluttering sorrow frantically
Frankly, beyond this road a unique flower will bloom

In the painted night sky, our wish
That became an eternity will come true now
Shine, you were born to walk for tomorrow's sake
Believe me ...

Close your eyes, clear your heart, and let's open that huge door!
Standing here, you were born to walk for today's sake
Believe me....
My pride didn't break when the tears overflew at that day
The light that I protected is my whole treasure

Not my day

2011-01-02T22:22:00.003+01:00

I have tried these past weeks not to contact him anymore. I know he and I won't have happiness because he has someone next to him already. And that day i msged him juZ to say happy new year.. but he didn't reply me. So i'm too eager to call him, but he also didn't pick up. I called him many times but no result. Finally today i can contact him and he is not in a place where he worked. He go back to his hometown, so i couldn't contact him. When he can be reached, i was actually mad enough. Dun know why.. (Maybe it's the feeling when U feel someone U care ignore U..Maybe). Hmm..my bad habit..hoho

But today I realize, I can't be like this forever. It's time to start new (although have said for many times).. I promise to myself, I have to find my own happiness. Dun hesitate to let go someone who doesn't belong to U from the start..
(Easier to said than to be done..Yeah!! BUT at least I will try it. Jia you ba!).

It's time to find a boyfriend. But where can I find my Mr. Right?? Hmm..I wonder

Dun knw why today I am so brave to post my personal affair here. I dun wish any comment..

好玖

2010-12-18T14:25:00.003+01:00

Release date : 17 Sept 2010

專輯曲目
01. Right Here Waiting
02. 不愛了 Recommended!!!
03. 夏天
04. 最後的那一天 Recommended!!!
05. 稱謂
06. No More Cryin’
07. 不一樣
08. 他不夠愛妳 Recommended!
09. Making Love Out Of Nothing At All

To Hebe

2010-12-18T13:52:00.003+01:00

Release date : 03 Sept 2010
01. Love ?
02. To Hebe Recommended!!
03. 离岛 Recommended!!
04. 没有管理员的公寓
05. 我对不起我 Recommended!
06. 我想我不会爱你 Recommended!
07. 寂寞寂寞就好 Recommended!!!
08. 你太猖狂 Recommended!!!
09. 超级玛丽 Recommended
10. 给小孩 Recommended!
11. Love !

韦礼安

2010-12-18T13:05:00.004+01:00

Release : 04 June 2010
曲目： 　　
01.有没有 Recommended!!!　　02.两脚书橱的逃亡　　
03.故事　　
04.因为爱 Recommended!!!　　
05.慢慢等　　
06.翻译练习　　
07.理由　　
08.阴天的向日葵　　
09.完美一点　　
10.好天气

HELLO 梁心颐

2010-12-18T12:30:00.004+01:00

Release : 06 Dec 2010

Tracking List

1 Everything Recommended!　　
2 胡椒与盐　　
3 我不再怕 Recommended!
4 当秋天遇上秋天
5 因为你 Recommended!
6 竹篱笆
7 John Recommended!
8 贝殼
9 Crescent City
10 小树
11 奇妙

她说

2010-12-18T11:20:00.008+01:00

Release date : 08 Dec 2010

Track Listing

01.她说 Recommended!
02.爱笑的眼睛
03.只对你有感觉
04.当你
05.一眼万年
06.保护色 (Feat. 张韶涵)
07.握不住的他
08.心墙
09.我很想爱他
10.一生的爱 Recommended!
11.记得 Recommended!

加油咯！

2010-12-18T10:46:00.002+01:00

刚刚考完试，一个是SAP还有一个是英文演讲。这两个也让我很费心尤其演讲。要上去的时候很紧张超紧张的。真的不容易啊。。前晚上还肚子很痛又很难呼吸我还以为会晕呢！幸好没事还能去考试。。
但一月份还有三个考试呢！要加油咯。。

upcoming tests

2010-12-10T22:57:00.003+01:00

quite a long time since the last posted. No particulary things happened so didn't post any blog till now.
But next week is different. I have two tests and one of them quite make me scare and nervous.. That is a presentation for 10minutes in English and my topic is sony corporation. So i have to talk about the history of sony, its management, brand message, etc. I'm having quite a lot of headache recently, because i haven't finished with my power point and haven't had any preparation for the day. (If U want to blame, blame to ur brain that doesn't work properly)

another one is SAP test. I tried to learn it in the uni last few days, hopefully that i won't forget the rules next monday because i can't learn it at home (dun have SAP program)..
Three more exams on Jan and then gather wif my FAMILY on chinese new year..

HOpe that i can pass all of these exams..
but still nervous because of my upcoming presentation..(actually wanna run away. but i can't :()
GBM
sadhu sadhu sadhu...

第21屆金曲獎林俊傑演唱

2010-11-21T15:24:00.001+01:00

林俊傑-她說

2010-11-20T01:25:00.005+01:00

她竟悄悄的来过
她慢慢带走沉默
只是最后的承诺
还是没有带走了寂寞

我们爱得没有错
只是美丽的独秀
太折磨她说无所谓
只要能在夜里翻来覆去的时候有寄托

等不到天黑烟火不会太完美
回忆烧成灰还是等不到结尾
她曾说的无所谓我怕一天一天被摧毁
等不到天黑不敢凋谢的花蕾

雨也在跟随放开刺痛的滋味
今后不再怕天明我想只是害怕清醒
不怕天明我想只是害怕清醒
N.B : 作曲~林俊傑, 作詞~孫燕姿

郭靜-總算我們也愛過

2010-11-20T00:53:00.000+01:00

從沒想過會再度與你相逢
這段時間我們改變了什麼
為何從來不覺得你離開過
原來我的愛還沒墜落

如果當時有什麼還沒有說
其實我也早已明白了所有
已錯過的永遠美麗而執著
總算我們也狠狠愛過

紙飛機
給了我們勇氣去作夢
就算沒有一起到最後

紙飛機
帶著我們共同作的夢
乘著白雲飛到永恆那個山峰

李玖哲-围墙

2010-11-20T00:48:00.002+01:00

不知不觉又过了几天
我想我习惯了忽略
去忽略没你的时间

不近不远走在谁身边
我想我适应了一切
这一切没你的时间

某条路某条街某首歌某间店
某种熟悉但如今却刺眼
不碰触不跨越为自己留一些安全界线

谁都以为不听不看也就没感觉
一转身才发现空气里面
依旧飘散着记忆的气味

谁有所谓或无所谓也不能改变
原来是我在爱上你的那瞬间
就困在围墙里面

某条路某条街某首歌某间店
某种熟悉但如今却刺眼
不碰触不跨越为自己留一些安全界线

谁都以为不听不看也就没感觉
一转身才发现空气里面
依旧飘散着记忆的气味

谁有所谓或无所谓也不能改变
原来是我在爱上你的那瞬间
就困在围墙里面

谁都以为不听不看也就没感觉
一转身才发现空气里面
依旧飘散着记忆的气味

谁有所谓或无所谓也不能改变
原来是我在爱上你的那瞬间
就困在围墙里面
多可悲围墙都在对不对

N.B : 作曲~林俊杰

郭靜-每一天都不同

2010-11-20T00:39:00.000+01:00

最討厭　要下不下的雨
可惜未來總是　撲朔迷離
如果摔的越痛　才越會飛行
快把我　丟向最高的天空裡

不喜歡　別人說我幸運
他們不懂我有　多麼努力
雖然衝動永遠　比堅持容易
寶貴的東西都需要很費心

碰到的事　每一天都不同
有的給我眼淚　有的給我笑容
終於會珍惜花開不怕花落
走過的曲折　就全變成彩虹

遇見的人　每一天都不同
偶爾失去什麼　偶爾學到什麼
慢慢能翻越沙洲走出日落
每一天的我　要比　昨天遼闊

連我都不相信自己的時候
只有你一直相信我
此刻我什麼也不想說
因為擁抱能表達得更多

林俊傑-完美新世界

2010-11-13T00:03:00.000+01:00

尋一束光琥珀色遠方
回憶被傳唱傷口被遺忘
淚水跟著眼眶流出一道方向
牽引著你我的希望

手聯手用心連接宇宙
夜光傾透寒風裡微顫抖
古老的記憶不斷的尋覓
因為愛要堅持到最後

手聯手撫平心靈傷口
寒風顫抖還是要往前走
當太陽再升起用愛解凍大地
重建完美新世界重現你和我

生命的無常說不出摸樣
我是迎著光逆著風飄蕩
你說暮色蒼茫空氣開始搖晃
不用害怕走吧希望就在不遠地方

手聯手用心連接宇宙
夜光傾透寒風裡微顫抖
古老的記憶依然不斷的尋覓
因為愛要堅持到最後

手聯手撫平心靈傷口
寒風顫抖還是要往前走
當太陽再升起用愛解凍大地
重建完美新世界重現你和我

Yeah~~
手聯手用心連接宇宙
寒風顫抖還是要往前走
當太陽再升起用愛解凍大地
重現完美新世界隻有你和我

王力宏-需要人陪

2010-11-12T23:48:00.005+01:00

打開窗戶讓孤單透氣
這一間屋子如此密閉
歡呼聲仍飄在空氣裡
像空無一人一樣華麗

我漸漸失去知覺
就當做是種自我逃避
你飛到天的邊緣
我也不猜落在何地

一個我需要夢想需要方向需要眼淚
更需要一個人來點亮天的黑
我已經無能為力無法抗拒無路可退
這無聲的夜現在的我需要人陪

閉上眼睛就看不清
這雙人床欠缺的溫馨
誰能陪我直到天明
穿透這片迷濛寂靜

我漸漸失去知覺
就當做是種自我逃避
你飛到天的邊緣
我已不猜落在何地

一個我需要夢想需要方向需要眼淚
更需要一個人來點亮天的黑
我已經無能為力無法抗拒無路可退
這無聲的夜現在的我需要人陪

一個我需要夢想需要方向需要眼淚
更需要一個人來點亮天的黑
我已經無能為力無法抗拒無路可退
這無聲的夜現在的我需要人陪

王力宏-需要人陪

Quotes

2010-11-12T22:44:00.002+01:00

Some quotes dat i like N will keep in my mind..

if you want to know what God thinks of money, just look at the people he gave it to.
-Dorothy Parker-

You are never to old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.
-C. S. Lewis-

If money is your hope for independence you will never have it. The only real security that a man can have in this world is a reserve of knowledge, experience and ability.
-Henry Ford-

One who fears failure limits his activities.
-Henry Ford-

Many people take no care of their money till they come nearly to the end of it, and others do just the sama with their time.
-Johann von Goethe-

Always do what you are afraid to do.
-Ralph Waldo Emerson-

Very few men, properly speaking, live at present, but are providing to live another time.
-Jonathan Swift-

Families are made to make you forget yourself occasionally, so that the beautiful balance of life is not destroyed.
-Anais Nin-

Love your enemies because they bring out the best in you.
-Friedrich Nietzsche-

What is evil? Whatever springs from weakness.
-Friedrich Nietzsche-

The lie is a condition of life.
-Friedrich Nietzsche-

A person, who never made a mistake, never tried anything new.
-Albert Einstein-

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.
-Theodore Roosevelt-The 26th US President-

一样的地方不一样的感觉

2010-11-12T14:03:00.002+01:00

Herbst

2010-11-12T13:55:00.001+01:00

autumn

2010-11-01T15:57:00.005+01:00

it's autumn again..Hmm
I dun like being cold, that's why i dun like autumn N winter either..
at the 1st time i was like others who excite to see snow. it lasts several hours or juZ several minutes, but U've to bear few months to wear thick jacket N being cold. Is it worth? depend on who answer this Q

FYI on oct 31th at 3am we have to reset the clock..one hour slower. that means NOW we are same as GMT (before GMT+1)

update

2010-11-01T15:36:00.003+01:00

haven't posted anything for several weeks..hehe
Reason? because i was too lazy N too addicted to read comic online. that's why no time to do these things..

so 2dae is nov 1st my sis b'dae..
我知道她很幸福快乐也很知足她现在的生活所以不需要帮她许什么愿望只要身体健康家人平安就够了。剩下的,只能有她来完成。Dream won't come true if u dun try ur best to make it come true N dat will remain as a dream. but i still wanna say "HAPPY BIRTHDAY YO^^"
one year older..hihihihihi (evil laugh)

i'm not feeling well since yesterday. flu, fever N sore throat.. :(
that's why i bought cakes 2dae to compesate myself for not being healthy. hope will recover soon..

Comic

2010-10-17T22:14:00.002+02:00

Recently there is no interesting drama to watch so keep reading comic, such as detective conan, penguin brothers, baby love, love sos, full house kiss, arisa, hapi mari, hanayomesama wa 16-sai, etc..
Actually i have been reading comics for several years. It can say dat most of my money (high school days) i spent on comic (by renting), but now i read it online..hehe. miZ those days when i turn pages of comic..my finger will turn black especially when i read new comics.
U can feel exciting, angry, anxious and u can smile, laugh or even heart beat.
COMIC IS THE BEST!! HOHOHOHO... (devil laugh)

last thursday i tried to bake new cake, ROLL cake..but i failed. it tastes awful. haha..
need to practise often..believe it! practise makes perfect!!!

挑战自己

2010-10-11T22:04:00.006+02:00

要说我无聊也好疯了也好或者懒也好(其实是懒..)今晚做了一个很不平常的事。因为直接到家门口的巴士已经走了如果要等到家门口的巴士要再等一个小时所以只好等半个小时的巴士只是不到家门口(还很远呢!)。

今天够狼狈的。要走大概2,5km的路(三个巴士站)。天气又冷(大概十度)又暗。肚子又饿。老实说我平时晚上都不出门的(除非因为工作读书)因为我不喜欢暗我也很怕暗。是一个很胆小的一个人(我承认。呵呵)
算是在挑战自己吧! 更何况也算是一个运动啊..
在这里我要感谢一个一直陪我的...
不然我真的很难度过这一天...
谢谢你~ 我的mp3 player到家时觉得走路飘飘的站不稳脚痛头又晕晕的(太饿了)所以就狂吃。哈哈..

一天又过了...
小婷~你要加油哦!
明天会更好~~

10.10.10

2010-10-10T13:00:00.003+02:00

What a wonderful day 2dae! Oct 10th 2010..Hmm
such an unforgetable day i wanna make wishes..hoho

wish me always happy
wish me good luck
wish me more diligent
wish me wiser
wish me braver
wish me cleverer
wish me have a wonderful love life
wish me pass my exams
wish my family N frenZ always healthy and happy
wish all my wishes will come true..

Recently

2010-10-06T23:07:00.003+02:00

Quite busy recently..need to go to campus. morning wake up afternoon or everning coming back..
the worst is to wake up in the morning N sleep early..haiZz

subjects dat i have to learn are Marketing, Human Resources, Business Computing (SAP), Business Law 2, Management Case-Studies (Presentation-Eng), Accounting 3 (Taxation and Balance-Sheet)..

Btw in 2nd term are Statistics (descriptive- and induktive statistics), Production and Logistics, Investment and Finance, Methods competence (Excel, Word), Accounting 2 (Cost Accounting and Controlling), Business Law 1, Information Technology (Presentation)

and in 1st term are Business Administration, Economics, Mathematics, Communication Skill (Excel, Power Point, Presentation), Accounting 1

These subjects i have translated from Google Übersetzer(German->English)..dun knw whether correct. hehe

Portsmouth?

2010-10-04T20:11:00.002+02:00

Today have an interview in international office about student exchange in Portsmouth, England. I was nervous and hv thought everything before what will be asked.maybe this maybe that maybe...But i've never thought dat the judge will be 3persons. WEW! that makes me more nervous and i also afraid dat i speak wrong, etc.
So during the interview they had asked me
why do u wanna go there? i want to improve my english
what's ur intention? improve english, learn another culture another environment, try new things
do u know the living cost there? i know it's very expensive
do u know how much do u need? do u know dat this is juz a course (language course) and dat's means u have to lengthen ur semester for 1 term? i dun really know juz know dat very expensive..i said yes (although still hoping dun need to extend my studies)
do u know that we juz provide around 200€ and u have to take care the rest? take care the rest yah but i still hope maybe someone can provide me more or i can work there
What i never imagined that they said i can't work and the living cost for 1month about 800€. That means i have to provide 600€ self and for 5months (3000€ altogether). Hmm..
I really wanna improve my english but i juz never imagine dat i hv to pay wif such a price. It's actually over my imagination, over my thought, over my ability..
They said many candidates but only 1 space and they give me 2days to consider..
How to solve this?
Maybe..NO! to say Actually i have an answer in my mind..
Actually i can afford 3000€ but is it worth?
Hmm..
RECONSIDER!! in process~~

New Template

2010-09-27T23:58:00.005+02:00

Juz changed new template..still under construction. Have to change many things but it's late already..Maybe do it 2morrow. hehe~

This template represent home. I'd regard this as my own home, where i can express my feelings, my hesitation about certain things, a place where i can play hide-and-seek, where i can be myself..
I think i've lost myself, because i always adjust wif whom i am talking to.
Maybe this blog's existence will help me find myself..

Template's link:
Enjoy Country Life

nervös?

2010-09-27T22:18:00.002+02:00

Viel passiert heute! neues Semester neues Beginn..
Erste Vorlesung habe ich betriebliche Information gehabt. Wir haben ein bißchen SAP-Programm gelernt und danach einen Berufungsvortrag gehabt.

Hab heute ein Email gekriegt, dass ich nächste Montag eine Bewerbungsgespräch über einen Studentenaustausch in Uni Portsmouth, England habe. Ich bin wirklich nervös und aufgeregt, weiß noch nicht ob ich zulässig bin oder nicht. Hoffentlich läuft alles gut. Ich wollte gerne mal dort gehen, um mein Englisch zu verbessern und mach mal was neues. Ich mag gerne Abendteuer, neue Dinge auszuprobieren, usw.
Geniss einfach das Leben! ^^

Heute habe ich auch zu meinem Onkel erzählt, dass ich in England studieren möchte. Weiß aber noch nicht ob es geht. Hmm..Wie wird seine Reaktion?Na ja~egal! Er weiß bestimmt, dass mein Studium wichtiger ist. Hehe~~

Ctrl + N

2010-09-26T22:41:00.004+02:00

Hm..2morrow new term..have to wake up early in the morning..haiZz
hope this term will go smoothly N not so difficult subject plZz..hehe

2dae learned how to make sushi..it seems simple N easy to do but when U do it, u hv to notice many parts. I think thz word "LOVE" is quite suitable for describing it. Before U fall in love, it seems so easy to forget him N get another one. when the time comes, it's hard to do it..

So be happy! whether it is gud or bad..juZ ENJOY d process..^^

Thanks GOD

2010-09-24T11:59:00.011+02:00

WOWW..Todae announce my result!! NERVOUS!!!My heart was beating so fast when i searched my matrikulation nummer..These exams weren't easy. i was afraid dat i would failed N have to write it again. Last nyte i even had a nytemare (although these happened often N quite harass me)..haiZZz!
Fortunately i passed these exams..hohohoho

that means i have passed this 2nd term..
I sincerely wanna say "thank you GOD!" U had blessed ME during those time!
feel relieved a bit
but it will be more difficult in 3rd term, 4th..5th..6th.. >.<
I will try my best to make U proud of ME! but U hv to help me N bless me OK!! :)
suddenly remember a song "Change My Heart OH God"
i heard this song 1st time from HEBE (a member of S.H.E)..LOVE THIS SONG

U're VERY Lucky

2010-09-11T14:02:00.003+02:00

Last nyte, i saw a variety show in internet. That was an interview to well-known figures daughters. As we knw their familys' life sure quite make us curious, such as : strict? pampered? cold-hearted? no family's member in the dinning room? no joking? and so on.

I loved to hear when a gal said : "Ur(parents) joyness and happiness dun mean my joyness and my happiness. i hv to responsible wif my life." and she also said : "maybe i will fail but if i tried it i've won already". Another one "what U hv experienced whether gud or bad maybe they are present from God, or to say they are ACTUALLY HIS gift. we always conclude wht we see in the present. maybe they are just his TEST to make us be better."
What makes me really surprise is her thought. I juz can say : "WOW! what an understanding girl she is".

In this show U can see how optimistic they are, how they cherish their life especially wif their family..

There is a song by Jay Zhou said :"Dreams U can't pursue, juZ change another one"

So,
U see! so many people try their best to pursue their dreams. failed and success! like black and white pitch from piano wif different tune and combine them to MELODY..

link to this variety show
http://www.natnatvip.org/2010/08/ss-ss-xiao-yan-2010-08-25.html

Waiting..

2010-09-08T16:05:00.010+02:00

== Not visible from below but sightseeing from ABOVE will be amazing, ryte? ==

Todae received an email from student email dat there is an offer to study in England as student exchange and an organizer called Erasmus will provide ca. 200€ per month. I'm quite interested so i fill out the form and attach the document they need and send it. I always want to study abroad (except Germany) as student exchange, such as in Taiwan, United States, England or China (There is one of the reasons why i continue to study here and not going back to my country to further my studies as i planned before..) because my university provides many student exchange wif other countries.

I've ever asked the staff whether there is any opportunity to go there. But last time she said "U came too late, the space has given to others. U've to find another(from ur target country) to exchange wif U". That's why NOW i dun wanna miss this chance.

There is no fees but i've to find accomodation there. Maybe it's not easy as i thought but i wanna improve my English N train to be independent. Quite nervous waiting dat date. The staff said after the application deadline(oct 1st) , all the applicant been asked to have 15Minutes conversation wif her. Yeah! still dun knw what will be but it's another adventure, ryte?

Oh yeah the student exchange begin from 31.01.2011 till 03.06.2011 in Portsmouth University, England..

More information to this uni:
http://www.port.ac.uk/

快乐很容易

2010-09-06T23:55:00.004+02:00

今天是很不错的日子所以想写下来做纪念。呵呵
很久没见到我的朋友，一起来德国这个朋友(情慧)终于今天见面了。跟她聊了很多。毕竟有一年没见到面了啊。。想不到来这里都有两年多了时间过得真快.跟她聊天一起吃牛排逛街买衣服回到家又立刻要做工，今天过得比较忙。很久没这样了因为从学校放假大概有两个月吧我都有一个多月没出门了一直待在家里。因为都不知道出去干嘛又要开始文书。说是要文书其实都没什么文书。我也不太清楚这个两个月是做过什么事的。

让我分享今天所发生的事吧!
今天要过马路的时候看到一个阿公卡住在马路的中间。虽然中间有一个位置让人站着(如果红灯亮的话)但可能因为某个原因他也坐轮椅所以站到靠近车路过的线了。那时候的我跟我朋友站在马路的另一边等绿灯。但因为他，车都要慢慢的驾过去。最后车都停了司机也暗示他让他先过马路(虽然还红灯)但他还是站在那边动也不动。我就觉得很奇怪想帮助他冲动的想跑过去但却没看眼前那两车。差一点被撞到了。(回到家了回去想一想可能那时候死神在旁边看着吧!) 最后我跑过去才知道他的烟掉了他又捡不到，他是在保护他的烟怕会被撞烂掉所以才会这样。然后我就帮他捡起来快点推他过马路了。心理默默的高兴因为今天做了一件好事! 今天吃牛排，很久没试试新的口味也很久没吃牛排了所以很高兴。到了晚上还有火锅可以吃。真的今天太幸福了吧! 很久没吃好料了。。好高兴哦! 真的很同意有一个说法："如果你吃好吃的东西心情也会变好"。

但明天要努力文书了啊~知道吗？好的。我会加油的!
因为下个星期考试了。不要在偷懒了。。

加油! 加油! 加油!

知错了!

2010-09-05T22:53:00.003+02:00

觉得今天好像说错话了! 对自己所说的有一点后悔。真的对不起，我不应该拿你跟我比较。。我知道你不会开玩笑的人也对每样事情很认真。可能因为一瞬间的冲动不小心伤害到你真的很抱歉。你对你丈夫的严格跟金钱的不失和你的固执还有对你第一个影响没那么好的我，觉得你真的很糟糕。就是说嘛如果第一个影响已经不好了以后怎样相处呢？但今天我错了。我不应该管你家里的事! 以后你怎样不对或者你怎样没道理都不管我的事!

小婷~你不要管人家的闲事了! 听懂了吗？

TIDAK vs JANGAN

2010-09-02T12:02:00.004+02:00

Pada suatu hari seorang Ibu dengan kesal mengeluh kepada seorang terapis tentang
anaknya.

Ibu : Pak saya sudah tobat dengan anak saya semakin hari dia semakin nakal saja kelakuannya.

Terapis : Nakal maksudnya seperti apa Bu ?

Ibu : Anak saya sangat susah diatur pak, dia mausesuai dengan kehendaknya saja. Pokoknya nakal pak, setiap hari bangunnya siang dan di sekolah juga suka berkelahi dengan temannya.

Terapis : Selama ini apa yang sudah Ibu lakukan terhadap anak ibu tersebut ?

Ibu : Wah sudah bosan pak setiap hari saya dan suami sudah menasehati bahkan memarahi anak tersebut tapi hasilnya nihil.

Terapis : Kalau anak Ibu senangnya bangunnya siang, biasanya nasehat apa yang sering Ibu sampaikan kepada anak Ibu?

Ibu : Ya nasehat pak supaya dia jangan bangun siang pak karena kami percaya bahwa kalau
bangun siang itu identik dengan pemalas.

Terapis : Kalau seandainya saya adalah anak Ibu kira-kira bagaimana Ibu menasehati saya supaya tidak bangun siang ?

Ibu : Andi kamu jangan bangun siang karena bangun siang itu sama dengan pemalas.

Terapi : Baik. Seberapa sering ibu berkata demikian ?

Ibu : Sudah bosan pak.

Terapis : Baik. Sekarang kalau masalah Andi suka berkelahi nasehat Ibu seperti apa terhadap dia kalau dia mau berangkat sekolah.

Ibu : Andi kamu hari ini tidak boleh berkelahi ya dengan teman kamu.

Terapis : Seberapa sering nasehat seperti itu Ibu sampaikan kepada andi ?

Ibu : Sering pak tapi tetap saja dia sering berkelahi. Saya harus bagaimana pak ? Saya sudah tobat dengan anak saya.

Kemudian dengan tenang Sang Terapis berkata kepada sang Ibu.
Terapis : Ibu pada dasarnya anak ibu bukanlah seoang yang pemalas dan suka berkelahi.
Kemungkinan besar dia menjadi seperti itu karena ada ucapan kita yang keliru, apalagi anak Ibu usianya baru 5 tahun. Sekarang saya mau menasehati ibu sesuatu. Coba ibu jangan bayangkan kucing. Apa yang muncul dalam pikiran ibu ?

Ibu : Kucing.

Terapis : Sekarang Ibu tidak boleh membayangkan wajah suami ibu ya. Apa yang ibu
bayangkan ?

Ibu : Wajah suami saya.

Terapis : Ibu tadi nasehat saya adalah jangan bayangkan kucing tapi malah Ibu membayangkan kucing, kemudian ketika saya minta untuk tidak membayangkan wajah suami Ibu malah Ibu membayangkan suami Ibu. Apakah Ibu tahu maksud dari nasehat saya tadi ?

Ibu : Maksudnya seperti apa Pak ?

Terapis : Pada dasarnya pikiran kita tidak mengenal kata TIDAK atau JANGAN. Setiap kali saya memberikan nasehat dengan kata TIDAK atau JANGAN malah kata tersebut hilang dalam pikiran kita. Ketika saya berkata JANGAN membayangkan kucing maka secara otomatis kata JANGAN menjadi hilang dan pikiran Ibu langsung membayangkan kucing. Demikian juga ketika saya berkata TIDAK boleh membayangkan suami ibu, kata TIDAK-nya hilang dan Ibu malah membayangkan wajah suami Ibu.

Terapis : Hal yang sama sebenarnya terjadi dengan anak Ibu. Ketika Ibu berkata JANGAN bangun siang maka yang masuk dalam pikirannya adalah bangun siang. Demikian juga TIDAK BOLEH berkelahi maka yang masuk dalam pikirannya adalah berkelahi.

Ibu : Oh iya ya pak. Bisa seperti itu ya Pak, berarti selama ini saya dong yang keliru memberikan nasehat kepada anak saya. Pantas saja semakin sering saya menasehati dia malah semakin jadi buruk hasilnya. Kalau begitu harusnya bagaimana dong pak ?

Terapis : Ya kurangilah penggunaan kata TIDAK atau JANGAN dalam memberikan nasehat karena kedua kata tersebut kurang produktif. Mengapa Ibu lebih sering menggunakan kata TIDAK atau JANGAN ? Karena ibu terlalu sering berkata apa yang Ibu tidak inginkan. Untuk mengurangi kata TIDAK dan JANGAN adalah dengan cara berkata apa yang Ibu inginkan.

Terapis : Masalah anak ibu bangunnya siang, sebenarnya apa yang Ibu inginkan dari dia ?

Ibu : Bangun lebih pagi.

Terapi : Tentang anak Ibu yang suka berkelahi, sebenarnya hal positif apa yang Ibu inginkan dari dia ?

Ibu : Dia bisa berteman dengan baik dan tentunya punya banyak teman.

Terapi : Kalau seperti itu mulai saat ini berkatalah tentang hal positif apa yang Ibu inginkan bukannya hal yang tidak Ibu inginkan.

Ibu : Jadi akan lebih baik kalau sebelum tidur saya nasehati dia supaya besok bangun lebih pagi dan sebelum berangkat sekolah saya menasehati dia supaya semakin baik dan mencintai temantemannya.

Terapis : Persis.

-o-

Inilah kehidupan kita kadang tanpa kita sadari kita lebih benyak memikirkan dan berkata apa yang
tidak kita inginkan daripada berpikir dan berkata apa yang kita inginkan.

Copy fr Motivation Bulletin by Andreas Hartono

Law of Attraction

2010-09-02T11:28:00.006+02:00

Dalam buku The Secret kita mengenal istilah Law of Attraction (LOA) atau oleh Stephen R. Covey
dalam bukunya 7 Habits dikatakan bahwa kita harus “begin with the end in mind” atau memulai
tujuan akhir melalui pikiran kita. Artikel kali ini mengangkat tema LOA tersebut yang diambil
dalam salah satu sesi percakapan training Be Positive – Be Possible To The Max.

Peserta : Pak apakah yang dimaksud dengan Law of Attraction (LOA) ?

Andreas Hartono (AH) : Pernahkah anda berkunjung ke suatu mall kemudian ketika memasuki mall tersebut anda membayangkan akan mendapatkan suatu tempat parkir yang nyaman bagi anda dan kemudian akhirnya anda mendapatkan tempat tersebut ?

Peserta : Ya beberapa kali hal tersebut saya alami.

AH : Itulah salah satu contoh Law of Attraction atau istilah Covey “begin with the end in mind”.

Peserta : Kalau seperti itu apakah berarti kalau saya berpikir positif maka saya akan menjadi positif dan kalau saya berpikir negatif saya akan menjadi negatif ?

AH : Ya, bukankah di kitab suci juga dikatakan bahwa “jangan berbuat jahat, berpikir saja jangan
dan sudah dosa”. Kenapa dikatakan demikian karena segala sesuatu awalnya adalah dari dalam
pikiran manusia atau oleh Covey diterjemahkan bahwa segala sesuatu diciptakan 2 kali yaitu
pertama melalui pikiran dan kedua baru melalui tindakan manusia.

Peserta : Wah pantas saja kalau begitu mengapa orang kaya menjadi semakin kaya dan orang
miskin menjadi semakin miskin ! Khan orang kaya setiap hari mikirnya rezeki sedangkan orang
miskin setiap hari mikirnya hutang. (semua peserta menjadi tertawa mendengar celetukan tersebut)

AH : Sekarang mari kita praktekkan bedanya berpikir positif dan berpikir negatif ya. Menurut
anda kalau ada orang yang selalu berpikir dan berkata “mencari uang itu susah !” apa yang dia
akan tarik atau dapatkan (LOA) dalam kehidupannya ?

Peserta : Mungkin hidupnya akan terus menerus susah karena kata ‘susah’ mendominasi pikirannya.

AH : Kalau ada orang yang berpikir dan berkata “mencari uang itu mudah dan menyenangkan !”
apa yang akan dia tarik ?

Peserta : Rezeki akan terus datang kepada dia.

AH : Persis. Sekarang coba anda katakan dalam hati atau pikiran anda “mencari uang itu susah!”
Bagaimana rasanya ? Sekarang bandingkan kalau anda berkata dalam hati atau pikiran anda
“mencari uang itu mudah dan menyenangkan!”

Peserta : Saya merasa lebih berenergi dan bersemangat ketika saya memikirkan bahwa
“mencari uang itu mudah dan menyenangkan”. Koq bisa begitu ya ?

AH : Karena itulah hukum pikiran manusia. Sekarang coba lagi dan rasakan energinya mana
yang lebih besar : “saya tidak mau hidup miskin” atau “saya akan menjadi orang kaya dan bisa berbagi kepada siapa saja”
“saya tidak ingin sengsara terus dalam hidup ini” atau “saya bahagia dan sangat menikmati hidup ini”
“penghasilan saya pas-pasan” atau “penghasilan saya melebihi semua kebutuhan saya”
“sudahlah nak, bapakmu ini miskin jadi jangan macam-macam” atau “bapakmu ini boleh seorang
sopir angkot tetapi kamu bisa menjadi seorang pilot nak”
“bapak cuman loper koran nak, terimalah apa adanya” atau “bapak boleh seorang loper koran
tetapi anakku bisa menjadi seorang wartawan”

Saat ini anda mempunyai pilihan untuk berpikir dan berkata yang positif atau negatif. Stephen
Covey berkata kalau anda mengingini perubahan kecil rubahlah perilaku anda tetapi kalau anda
mengingini perubahan besar maka rubahlah cara berpikir anda.

Copy fr Motivation Bulletin by Andreas Hartono

see more in http://www.andreashartono.com/

I will not lose to U..HOHO

2010-08-30T12:15:00.004+02:00

when i was browsing N waiting for upcoming dramas (only once a week airing) last nyte, i found something dat really inspiring me to be better OR even BETTER. Because i'm tOo Lazy recently N do Nothing except watching dramas, fb-ing, sleeping, eating..haiZz
My mind juz dun wanna cooperate..everytime when i start to open d boOk, i can't concentrate and i close it again N again. i even bought one kind of pill to make me more concentrate (something called Brain plus). i am spoiling myself, ryte? YEAH!! I knw..
i dun wanna pressure my brain if he doesn't want to.

These situation happened frequently. i had even tried to challenge myself (me VS me). I hypnotize, strict N comfort myself, such as "OK! U can enjoy now but after 2nyte U hv to start learning. No MOre PLAYING!!" or "If U achieved gud result, i will grant U some expesive things"..
It become my habit! whether enjoy 1st or later..that's why i dun hv any SAVING! (Mum~dun blame ME ok! Those to guarantee my existence. Haha)
I dun wanna regret my LIFE! dat's why i hv to enjoy my life even a minute..Hoho ^^

OK! come back to topic. I found a quote from my SIS's blog. I hope this quote will help me along my journey.
it said "Don't stay too long in comfort zone, it will lead you to stupidity and laziness by APH YEo"

SO I will not lose to U (Myself N My SIS).. I will fight till d END! Hehe

N.B : Sis, Whenever N Whatever U do, I will always support U..MuackzZ ^^

Haiya..

2010-08-19T23:45:00.003+02:00

dun blogging for a while..
Hmm..

Actually 2dae quite unlucky. A guest scold me, not really scold me but something dat would make me feel unhappy..haiZz yeah! thiZ is my job as a waitress. sometimes this kind of things would be happened. so.. dun thnk too much ok!

No particulary things happened recently..so dun knw wht to post. Hope dat i would find my happiness N d place where i am searching for..

It has started

2010-08-09T14:43:00.003+02:00

I mean another exam. This time i hv Production & Logistic, Law and Investition and Finance..what i'm really worry about are Investition N Finance and Law. HOw can i passed these exams? These are very tough. But U hv done so gud til now becOz last exams U hv passed all. AmaZing, ryte?

I'm quite surprised too. Dun waste my effort indeed! Hoho~

Although i hv tried my best and i though my grade would be better but it didn't.. I admit dat i become greedy N i always expect MORE & MORE..(Is it alryte, OR...)

So this time U've to put more effort OK! But another problem comes "MY ILLNESS ----> LAZY "

-.-"

Hope U can overcome it! I believe...

My life is boring, ryte? I hv spent my one month holiday already but i did nothing..juZ stayed at HOME, Faced My LaptoP, Worked..I dun knw since when i became like thiZ ----> HOME GAL. Quite disappointed wif myself. HUHHH!

Hmm...

2010-08-08T23:28:00.004+02:00

HaiZz..I still can control my temper. how to do??
why i always put heart to do it although i knw i will get hurt? especially wif him, my cousin. i think he is a rare species. NO! He is really a rare species. He doesn't know how to communicate wif others, wht he knws is how he feels. He doesn't knw dat becoZ of him many people get irritated N dun Happy! N he doesn't admit dat he is WRONG..wth!! huh!!!!
It makes me really angry. He always make my day very exhausting.

HaiZz!! It's not worth be angry becoz of someone like him.. He is juZ one of HIS test! dun be defeated, OK!
Jia You~~~~

believe it! 2morrow will be better..^^

MiZz those days..

2010-07-30T13:44:00.004+02:00

I juz came back from Kiel,where i spent my 2years there..as i arrived there, suddenly i felt dat i really miZz those days..when i rushed and run toward bus, when i walked around alone, when i gathered wif my frenZz, when i stayed alone in my room, when i cooked alone, when i chatted n laughed wif my uncles..it was a good memory indeed.
HOWEVER
i've to stay here in a small city if i wanna graduate (probably). so dun thnk too much juZ do what u've to do N dun lose to ur another thinking..

Dun FORGET wht's ur intention to come here (Germany)..
Be BRAVE to face all of ur problems (I know)
Be optimist to urself (not so easy)
Be KInd to others (I've done it)
Be Mature to think 1st before action (sometimes i can't control my thought >.<)
Be Generous to let things go dat doesn't belong to U (It's HARD T.T)
Be Forgetful to something dat dun happy to remember (I'm still trying)
Be Happy towards everyday (OK!!)
Be Diligent if u wanna success (I knw, but...It's not easy to do)
Be Urself if U're U (yeahhh..)
Trying ur BEST if U dun wanna regret ONEDAY (Yesss, this is my MOTTO)

JIA YOU!!

周杰倫-超人不會飛

2010-07-25T15:38:00.002+02:00

妈妈说很多事别太计较
只是使命感找到了我我睡不着
如果说骂人要有点技巧
我会加点旋律你会觉得超屌
我的枪不会装弹药
所以放心不会有人倒
我拍青锋侠，不需要替身，因为自信是我绘画的颜料

我做很多事背后的意义并非你们想象
拍个电视纯为了友情与兄弟间的梦想
收视率在考验来看看我的伟大理想
因为我的人生我需再多一倍的假象
我不知道何时变成了所谓的那榜样
被狗仔拍的那边装着要道歉的模样怎样

我唱的歌词要有点文化
因为随时会被当教材
CNN能不能等英文好一点再访
时代杂志封面能不能重拍
随时随地注意形象
要控制饮食不然就跟杜莎夫人蜡像的我不像
好莱钨的中国戏院地上有很多手印脚印
何时才能看见我的脚..oh~

如果超人会飞.那就让我在空中停一停歇
再次俯瞰这个世界会让我觉得好一些
拯救地球好累虽然有些疲惫但我还是会
不要问我哭过了没因为超人不能流眼泪

唱歌要拿最佳男歌手
拍电影也不能只拿个最佳新人
你不参加颁奖典礼就是没礼貌
你去参加就是代表你很在乎
得奖时你感动落泪
人家就会觉得你夸张做作
你没表情别人就会说太嚣张
如果你天生这表情
那些人甚至会怪你妈妈
结果最后是别人在得奖
你也要给予充分的掌声与微笑
开的车不能太好
住的楼不能太高
我到底是一个创作歌手还是好人好事代表
专辑一出就必须是冠军
拍了电影就必须要大卖
只能说当超人真的好难

如果超人会飞那就让我在空中停一停歇
再次俯瞰这个世界会让我觉得好一些 oh
拯救地球好累虽然有些疲惫但我还是会
不要问我哭过了没因为超人不能流眼泪

周杰倫-好久不見

2010-07-25T15:36:00.001+02:00

好久不見你還好嗎
你的小狗長大了嗎
我的圍巾還圍著嗎
我的相片都丟了吧
我剪不到後面頭髮這個藉口還不錯吧（哎喲不錯）
一把剪刀一堆廢話還不是想求求你回來吧

麥擱一個人咧生氣乎伊煩惱乎伊操心
雖然不關我ㄟ代誌誰叫他是我ㄟ兄弟耶
攏這麼久就唰唰去想想秋天就馬過去耶
冬天來臨他會怕冷你不回來甘講要我抱伊
按呢甘好

是我不好我沒有緊緊抱住你
你說淚留著很危險
如果等雨一起（等雨一起）流下不讓同情發現

我對天空這個那個流星大喊後會不會有奇蹟
就算做朋友也沒關係
為你改變了自己都不認識自己
不是我跑去了整形只是我拿出真心
開一瓶這個那個香檳去我的Mr.J餐廳
點蠟燭順便吃個甜品
慶祝你打死不連絡的毅力
冷戰早已經不流行趕快回來到我身邊

麥擱一個人咧生氣乎伊煩惱乎伊操心
雖然不關我ㄟ代誌誰叫他是我ㄟ兄弟耶
攏這麼久就唰唰去想想秋天就馬過去耶
冬天來臨他會怕冷你不回來甘講要我抱伊
按呢甘好

是我不好我沒有緊緊抱住你（緊緊抱住你）
你說淚留著很危險（很危險）
如果等雨一起（等雨一起）流下不讓同情發現

我對天空這個那個流星大喊後會不會有奇蹟
就算做朋友也沒關係
為你改變了自己都不認識自己
不是我跑去了整形只是我拿出真心
開一瓶這個那個香檳去我的Mr.J餐廳
點蠟燭順便吃個甜品
慶祝你打死不連絡的毅力
冷戰早已經不流行趕快回來到我身邊

周杰伦-雨下一整晚

2010-07-25T15:29:00.003+02:00

街灯下的橱窗有一种落寞的温暖
吐气在玻璃上画着你的模样
开着车漫无目的的转弯不知要去哪个地方
闹区的电视墙到底有谁在看

白杨木影子被拉长
像我对你的思念走不完
原来我从未习惯你已不在我身旁
街道的铁门被拉上
只剩转角霓虹灯还在闪
这城市的小巷雨下一整晚

你撑把小纸伞叹姻缘太婉转
雨落下雾茫茫问天涯在何方
午夜笛笛声残偷偷透透过窗
烛台前我嘛还在想
小舢舨划呀划小纸伞遮雨也遮月光

白杨木影子被拉长
像我对你的思念走不完
原来我从未习惯你已不在我身旁
街道的铁门被拉上
只剩转角霓虹灯还在闪
这城市的小巷雨下一整晚

S.H.E-愛就對了

2010-07-25T15:20:00.003+02:00

總是要流一些滾燙熱淚才能換來對於愛的體會
你看世界沒有毀滅心也沒有碎
其他的就交給時間解決

你當然可以重新再愛受過傷的更懂怎樣愛與被愛
所以別再理有他的回憶有空再回憶
離開你的只有他但是愛還在

聽我說愛是對的錯的是我們還沒學會愛
就急著愛人而愛錯人
可是愛就對了遇到下一個
愛上就愛了痛苦或快樂都是我的
Oh...woo...

我當然經歷過你現在的感受
我想的是人必經的折磨 Yeah
也許每個人都該是某個人成長的助手
受一點互動幫助他承受

聽我說愛是對的錯的是我們還沒學會愛
就急著愛人而愛錯人
可是愛就對了遇到下一個
愛上就愛了痛苦或快樂都是我的
Oh...woo...

別探聽他的線索
別等待他會回頭
愛（哎）呀呀（不喜歡看人軟弱）
別繼續把心封鎖
別躲在傷心里頭
愛（哎）呀呀（萬一來了別錯過）

愛是對的錯的是我們還沒學會愛
就急著愛人而愛錯人
可是愛就對了遇到下一個
愛上就愛了痛苦或快樂都是我的

聽我說愛是對的錯的是別人自以為懂愛
才會又愛人又傷害人
可是愛就對了愛了就值得
愛這門功課艱深但快樂愛就對了

聽我說愛是對的錯的是別人自以為懂愛
才會又愛人又傷害人
可是愛就對了愛了就值得
愛這門功課艱深但快樂愛就對了（萬一來了別錯過）

Egg Tart

2010-07-25T13:50:00.006+02:00

Ingredients
100g confectioners' sugar
450g all-purpose flour
170g butter
1 egg, beaten
1 dash vanilla extract

2/3 cup white sugar
1 1/2 cups water
5 eggs, beaten
1 dash vanilla extract
2/3 cup evaporated milk

How to do
1.In a medium bowl, mix together the confectioners' sugar and flour. Mix in butter with a fork until it is in small crumbs. Stir in the egg and vanilla until the mixture forms a dough. The texture should be slightly moist. Add more butter if it is too dry, or more flour, if the dough seems greasy. Shape dough into 1 1/2 inch balls, and press the balls into tart molds so that it covers the bottom, and goes up higher than the sides. Use 2 fingers to shape the edge into an A shape. Let it be for about 30minutes.

2.Preheat the oven to 450 degrees F (230 degrees C). Combine the white sugar and water in a medium saucepan, and bring to a boil. Cook until the sugar is dissolved, remove from heat and cool to room temperature. Strain the eggs through a sieve, and whisk into the sugar mixture. Stir in the evaporated milk and vanilla. Strain the filling through a sieve, and fill the tart shells.

3.Bake for 15 to 20 minutes in the preheated oven, until golden brown, and the filling is puffed up a little bit.

N.B : Whole milk will work as a substitute for evaporated milk

New Card Game

2010-07-16T00:44:00.004+02:00

Todae juz learn new game, german card..
everyone take a card wif following, if
Ace means everyone have to drink till the one who got this card stop and follow to his neighbour, etc
two means the one who got this card have to drink two times
three means drink three times
four means the one who got this card can choose who will get this punishment (drink four times, can share)
five see four ( drink five times)
six means guy have to drink
seven means the opposite
eight means the one who doesn't smoke hv to drink
nine means the opposite
ten means the one who got this card have right to rule this game (ex: the pose how to drink)
Jack (Bube) means everyone hv to said somekind of brand (such as shoes brand, etc)
Queen (Damen) means one ask another without answer it wif different question until the one who can't response hv to drink
King (König) means the one who got this card hv the right to put something into a glass till the last king (4th) shown up hv to drink it.

Lapis Legit

2010-07-13T22:01:00.002+02:00

Ingredients :
500g butter
25 egg yolks
200g flour
250g sugar
1/2 tsp vanilla
1/2 tin sweet condensed milk
1 tsp mixed spices (negligible)

How to make it
Beat the egg yolks, sugar and vanilla till thick and creamy
Stir in flour and butter and beat it until well mixed
Preheated oven to 220°C

Spread a little of butter on the baking pan
For first layer, spread 1spoon of mixture to a bowl and mix it with 3tsp condensed milk and bake in oven 180°C for 10-15mins

For subsequent layers, mix with condensed milk as above and grill each layer for about 3mins
Remove from the oven and press the cake evenly, if there is any bubbles poke it with a fork than press again with the bottom of a flat glass or with spoon
Keep doing this step until the batter is finished
Serve when the cake is cool

I'm FREE

2010-07-09T23:51:00.002+02:00

Haha..feel so relaxed coz today is my last exam..hv holiday onwards..

juz knew i hv passed one exam already, hope others won't disappointed me too..

Jia you! wanna enjoy my holiday till d next exam..^^

Strawberry Farm

2010-07-07T11:07:00.006+02:00

Haha..finally know the feeling of plucking strawberry..i didn't expect it, because i juz said to my aunt that i wanna go to a store to buy something n return bottles. It was quite interesting, but a little warm because i wore black T-Shirt..Took a Photo as Memorial. Hehe

Few days ago juz had two exams.it was not easy as i expected N i didn't do it well, but at least i had tried my best! HOpefully i will pass these exams, No More Learning! PLEASE!!!

Still hv another exam to go. this One not too difficult, OK?

To Claire Yeo

2010-06-28T22:21:00.004+02:00

Hey! U need to be stronger, so u can face all of ur problems..
dun be a kiddy who juz knw how to cry..shame N useless!
dun be a fool who lives in the past

dun think suck things which only make U sad

U have to think more 'bout urself
U hv to grow up
U've to be a girl who knows how to settle ur OWN problems

U dun need to wait someone who won't ever be yours..
U've to reflect to urself which kind of life u wanna choose (depend on urself)
U can be kind to others but with limit..
u need to be stronger,,
so oneday if u hv to face such kind of things, u won't be afraid or wanna run away or juz hide in the corner N cry..it is useless!! Mind it!!!
It is time to walk forward without looking back anymore! it's enough already!
U've suffered a lot..

I hope dat u can forget ur past N of course live ur own life wif laugh N smile..^^
JIA YOU!

from
Claire Yeo
on 28 Juni 2010

A lesson from a blind boy

2010-06-26T23:47:00.005+02:00

A blind boy sat on the stairs of a building with a
hat lay at his feet. He held up a board that reads:
"I am blind, help me." There are only a few coins in the hat.

A man walked past the place of this child. He took several pieces of
money from his pocket and dropped it into the hat. Then he took the
board, turned it over and write a few words. This guy put the board
back so that people passing could see what he had written.
Soon, the hat was filled. More and more people
give money to that blind boy.

That afternoon the man who changed the words on the board had come to see the developments taking place.
The child recognized his footsteps and asked:
"Did you change the writing on my board this morning? What did you write? "
The man said, "I just wrote the truth. I deliver what you've written in a different way.

"What he has written is:
" Today is beautiful day and I can not see it ".

Is not that the first writing with the latter actually the same?
Of the two papers had the same meaning, namely that the child is blind.
But, the first writing just say that the boy is blind.
Meanwhile, a second article that says to people that they are very lucky that they can see.
Do we need to get surprise to see if the second writing is more effective?

Be thankful for everything you have.
Be creative. Be innovative. Think from the point of view
different and positive. Invite others towards good things.
Live life with no excuses and love without regret.
When life gives you 100 reasons to cry.
show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile :)
The most beautiful thing is to see someone smile ...
But that first beautiful thing is knowing that you are the reason behind the smile!

N.B : Copy from Eddy Lim on 26. Juni 2010

Don’t grow old, just grow up

2010-06-26T23:44:00.007+02:00

A lot of us think that age is a liability, but it can be a great asset. What matters most is our attitude.
We are as old as our doubts, unbelief and cynicism.
A friend forwarded this story to me. I do not know the original author, whom I would have acknowledged.
This story is a great example of a person who has a great spirit and a great attitude to life.
Read it and I am sure you will be as challenged as I was:

The story…
“The first day of school our Professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn’t already know.
I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.
I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.
She said : “Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I’m eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?”
I laughed and enthusiastically responded, “Of course you may!” and she gave me a giant squeeze.
“Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?” I asked.
She jokingly replied, “I’m here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids.”
“No seriously” I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.
“I always dreamed of having a college education and now I’m getting one!” she told me.
After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake.
We became instant friends.

Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk in java-script.
I was always mesmerized listening to this “time machine” as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.
Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went.
She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students.
She was living it up.

At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet I’ll never forget what she taught us.
She was introduced and stepped up to the podium.
As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor.
Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, “I’m sorry I’m so jittery I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I’ll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know.”

As we laughed she cleared her throat and began:
“We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success.

You have to laugh and find humor every day. You’ve got to have a dream.
When you lose your dreams, you die. We have so many people walking around who are dead and don’t even know it!
There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don’t do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty eight. Anybody can grow older. That doesn’t take any talent or ability.
The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change.
Have no regrets. The elderly usually don’t have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets.”
She concluded her speech by courageously singing “The Rose.”
She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives.
At the year’s end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago.

One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep.
Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it’s never too late to be all you can possibly be.
These Words have been passed along in loving memory of ROSE.

REMEMBER, GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY. GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL.
We make a living by what we get.
We make a Life by what we give.
God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage.
If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it. “Good friends are like stars……
You don’t always see them, but you know they are always there.”

N.B : Copy from Eddy Lim on 26. Juni 2010

25. Juni 2010

2010-06-26T23:14:00.007+02:00

I'm quite surprised, becoz i didn't notice dat today is my b'dae..i juz knew it after my cousin (YP) N my sister (XF) sent a b'dae msg to me..Not a bad feeling actually! ^^
Maybe it's better dun knw when ur b'dae is rather knew it N u're alone..
Recently i'm quite diligent (i think)..i learnt a lot for my coming exam (at least i spent more than 3hours)..
quite proud of myself..haha

my b'dae wishes for this year (as memorial)
I hope dat I :
will pass these coming test
become more dilligent
am happier N more cheerful
knw when to take N let go..
learn to be proud of myself (see my good points)
learn to cherish myself n this life
will repay the kindness from others
will find a place whr my heart belong to
all my family N frendZ lead a happy life
N the last GROWN UP!

N.B : God, i hv so many wishes, do u able to fulfill it? I admit dat I'm quite greedy.Of course u will reply me N say "most of them still depend on urself". I knw it, god..Maybe juz wanna believe dat someone can give me strength to fulfill them..that's why we hv this word "rely"..isn't it?

no guts..

2010-06-24T18:45:00.003+02:00

today i hv Informatic Test..i thought it would be tough but not really. recently feel dat i dun hv gut to do everything..my heart always "ba dump ba dump". it's really strange. I become nervous quickly N my brain can't think properly..

Exam is coming..hope dat all will go smoothly.. ^^

Compensate

2010-06-23T21:43:00.004+02:00

yesterday i compensated my birthday by buying a tiramisu, a muffin and kirsch for myself. N today i feed myself wif strawberries..feel so fortune N happy..HAHA

Although no birthday cake, No birthday surprise, No celebrate, No frenz around me..i feel quite happy wif these stuff (above)..maybe this is a way to comfort myself..

tomorrow hv a informatic test..not sure whether i can do it perfectly but i will try my best.

However i always try to cheer up N tell to myself : "There is nothing impossible when u wanna try it" BUT everytime if i face up a difficulty i need something to cheer up myself, like favourite foods or things dat i am longing..

Maybe this become my life style..I need prize or some kind of present to compensate my sacrifice..

Haha..it's quite strange, ryte?

14 June 2010

2010-06-14T20:18:00.005+02:00

今天，在这个时刻，这一分钟觉得压力好大又很累(心灵的累)。考试又要到了。还没
开始文书所以很烦但实在没有那种要读书的心情。小婷~你太懒了吧! 可能一直以来
你都过得太舒服太轻松的日子所以才会这样吧!
所以呢你要多多加油啊! 不要以后才后悔。。
打起精神来吧!
你可以的。。

An unforgetable Time

2010-06-14T19:31:00.013+02:00

Day by day without realizing it, time goes so quickly. it's 2010 N on Feb i went back to my hometown. Actually i was waiting this time to come N see him. But in the end i didn't see him N didn't hv many contacts wif him. it's weird, ryte? yeahhh..that time i was too disappointed wif him N thought dat it's better if i dun c him. but i'm a little regret now..MIZ him so much! till now i can't figure up why his existence hv so many influence to me. he can make me mad in a minute N laugh after. Is it called LOVE???? but why wif this guy? we had breaked up since two years ago N he has a gf now. why can't i juz be a generous girl N let him go from my world?? 2years already!!!! dun knw wht we will be in the future--ex-who exist in d past-secret lover-enemy-buddy-or spouse?

i always try to keep a distance wif him. i tried not to contact him - no call, no sms. but it last only 1month. haiZz..maybe dun force urself to do it but let it be nature. otherwise u're too cruel to urself! ok dun talk about him anymore..

i change my topic to my last trip in indonesia!
an unforgetable moment when i was in Lagoi. wowww!!! it was really amazing.. i can't never imagined how was i happy N relax. it was a beautiful place to take a rest especially if we go there wif our buddy. so happy happy happy happy!! ^^

N in Sg too..
wif aqing, debor N anna. we had breakfast together, had tea time (dessert), shopping, supper (dianxin in Geylang..^^), taken photos. that was my happy time. haven't had such a feeling for a long time (since i come to germany)

Note for 2dae : At least u hv ur buddy, who will listen N be there for U anD hope that this kind of situation will come often in ur day! Jia you!

15.10.09

2009-11-15T23:42:00.000+01:00

LOW Bat..
wht should i do??

Traffic lights n Teeth

2009-11-03T12:26:00.006+01:00

yesterday my cousin n i had been taken a picture from trafficlights..haiZ dun knw whether us who had been taken d photo or others..hopefully not us otherwise we hv to pay the punishment fees..i think that will not cheap
ok! today! i went to dentist check up my teeth..i hv known already dat my teeth aren't okay! i think i hv to pay at least 300€ to make it alright..hopefully everything will be better..

jia you!!

let angel find ur heaven..

2009-10-27T13:20:00.004+01:00

2dae,.i received a news dat really make me shocked n unbelievable..my uncle passed away..how could be? he was a good person..really good..never throw a temper, kind, always stay happy, n sometimes would told joking too..

heard dat becoz of heart attack..tua ku, hope u will find ur angel to help u find ur heaven..u will go to heaven..i believe it..i will pray to u..u will always stay in my heart n be my model..

until now i can't believe it..it is really hard for me to receive wht i hd heard. but wht could i do? this is god's will. i juZ can pray for him..

this really make me realize something,. is it d god who start to remind n warn us to cherish people around us before it's too late??

22. Oktober 09

2009-10-22T21:56:00.003+02:00

Ich war an der Fh von 10Uhr bis 19Uhr..unglaublich!
richtig einen beschäftigen Tag! ;) von VWL 1,5 Stunde dannach Mathe 6Stunde..Wowwww
Es gibt kein neues heute! aber mein Problem hat noch nicht gelöst. was soll ich dann tun?
ich habe am Sonntag mit Online Banking einen Betrag überwiesen.Aber ich hab nicht richtig ausgefüllt und einfach abschicken. jetzt ist es das Problem. Dieser Betrag hat im meinen Konto schon abgebucht aber mein Freund, der das Geld leihen möchte, hat den Betrag noch nicht bekommen. Na ja~ ich war am Dienstag zur BAnk gegangen. Ich dachte, dass alles schon in Ordnung sind. Aber gestern und Heute habe ich mein Konto im Netz angeschauet, bleibt die Summe noch wie vorher, nicht wie was der Staff-BAnk gesagt hast 'alles in Ordnung'.. :(

Auf jedenfalls gehe ich Morgen zur Bank! noch Mal fragen..was ist passiert! und Geld einzahlen! wofür??? um das Ticket zu bezahlen..hehe
Endlich werde ich nach Indonesien zurückfliegen......hohohoho

Unterricht für diese Fall :
Muss Vorsichtig sei und sorgfältig!!!

cold...

2009-10-21T22:45:00.003+02:00

dun knw wht to write..there is nothing special happenned.,

juZ went to uni n went back to home wif motorcycle as usually..

sometimes feel dat i'm too kiddie,.u should grow up already

dun like a child anymore..jia you!

be mature thinking..u can do it! i believe..^^

nEw BegiNNing

2009-10-20T15:08:00.007+02:00

wow.,It has been so long dat i didn't post any blog. seem that i forgot my password. i took a while to find d password..haiZ got old already.,
suddenly juz wanna write how hv i been? whr was i? wht had happenned? juz from me N to me.,onlY mE knoW thiZ..hehe

I've been in d university for 'bout 2weeks.,wht had happenned actually i am not surprised at all coz i've expected it already,.but still disappointed!! why d life n environment at d uni muss so? it's too boring n they won't talked to u 1st if u didn't begin 1st.,WTH!
it's not funny at all.,dun hv frenZ,.looks like stupid dummy gals,.

sometimes i would asked myself, 'hv i went to a wrong place?' whr am i? whr should i be? whr is my own paradise? or hv i chosed d wrong way?' until now still hvn't found d answer.,
maybe 1 dae i will find it myself,.juZ wait n C..;P

NOW

nobody beside me

nobody care wht i'm doing
nobody needs me miss me
nobody loves me
nobody courages me
life seems so hard,.i juZ need some1 who cares me who understand me who needs me
coZ it seems that my existence dun hv any effect to thz world.,
Claire, YOU'RE TOO LONELY!!! jia you! jia you!

2dae i'm very angry,.my ex wanna me lend him money,.i've actually sent to him but it failed. n he asked n asked me,.i've actually told him that i need IBAN code n BIC code,.but he seems didn't understand..keep msg n calling me..makes me really frustated,.how could he expect so much from me when i am here n he is there.,n we r juZ ordinary frenZ,.N he wouldn't be like 2dae if it's not coz of MONEY!!
i'm very ANGRY! ANGRY! ANGRY! ANGRY! gggrrrrrrrrrrrrrr..
how could he keep asked me when i've done my best! wht should i do? hvn't i done enough for him?
his attitude 2dae makes me really disappointed! i dun thnk dat my love to him will same like b4.,

mybe the time comes up already..i feel disappointed n hv to let him go..he doesn't belong to me anymore..
XIAO THING, u should woke UP!!
2morrow will be better..u must try ur best!! ^^

周杰伦-时光机

2008-10-20T18:48:00.004+02:00

墙角迎风的雏菊.
茉莉花开的香气.
闭上眼回到过去.
划分界限的座椅.
下课就靠在一起.
我就是离不开你.
一路争吵的话题.
我们说好走到底.
因为从此就分离.
用黑板上的日期.
倒数找你.

慢慢清醒.原来思念你是加了糖的消息
我用铅笔.画得更仔细素描那天天气
想你的香气.我想遇见你

那童年的希望是一台时光机.
我可以一路开心到底都不换季.
带竹蜻蜓.穿过那森林
打开了任意门找到你一起旅行.
那童年的希望是一台时光机.
给我放伯伯的糖糖你味道熟悉.
所有回忆.在夏天的口袋里.
一起荡秋千的梦境.在风中找寻着甜蜜

有些话从来不急.
一直都放在心底.
想要叫你看仔细.
而单纯世故的你.
已经离去.
哦.慢慢清醒
原来思念你是加了糖的消息.
我用铅笔.画得更仔细素描那天天气
想你的香气.我想遇见你

那童年的希望是一台时光机.
我可以一路开心到底都不换季.
带竹蜻蜓.穿过那森林
打开了任意门找到你一起旅行.
那童年的希望是一台时光机.
给我放伯伯的糖糖你味道熟悉.
所有回忆.在夏天的口袋里
一起荡秋千的梦境.在风中找寻着甜蜜

那童年的希望是一台时光机.
我可以一路开心到底都不换季.
带竹蜻蜓.穿过那森林
打开了任意门找到你一起旅行.
那童年的希望是一台时光机.
给我放伯伯的糖糖你味道熟悉.
所有回忆.在夏天的口袋里
一起荡秋千的梦境.在风中找寻着甜蜜

哦.在找寻着甜蜜~
哦.在找寻着甜蜜~
哦.在找寻着甜蜜~

Ferien..

2008-10-15T19:37:00.003+02:00

2weeks Autumn holiday neee..hehe

but dun knw wat to do..bored! everydae juZ facing the comp..hoho
try to be happy! hope i can do it..jia you!!

周杰伦-说好的幸福呢

2008-10-15T12:18:00.008+02:00

你的绘画凌乱着
在这个时刻
我想起喷泉旁的白鸽
甜蜜散乱了
情绪莫名的拉扯
我还爱你呐
伴你断断续续唱着歌
假装没事了

时间过了走了
爱情面临选择
你冷了倦了我哭了
一开始的不快乐
你用卡片拭写着
有些爱只给到这真的懂了

怎麽了你累了
说好的幸福呐
我懂了
不说了爱淡了
梦远了
开心与不开心
一一叙说着
你在不舍
那些爱过的感觉都太深刻
我都还记得
你不等了
说好的幸福呐
我错了泪干了
放手了后悔了
只是回忆的音乐盒还旋转着
要怎么停呐

怎麽了你累了
说好的幸福呐
我懂了不说了
爱淡了梦淹了
我都还记得
你不等了说好的
幸福呐
我错了泪干了
放手了后悔了
只是回忆的音乐盒还旋转着
要怎么停呐

林俊杰-我还想她

2008-10-13T14:20:00.005+02:00

泪水将我淹没到底谁该难过
究竟是谁放掉这段感情
我才终于明白办不到的承诺就成了枷锁
现实中幸福永远缺货
请告诉她我不爱她
笑着难过自我惩罚
想终止这一切挣扎
横了心说真心谎话
别告诉她我还想她
恨总比爱容易放下
当泪水堵住了胸口
就让沉默代替所有回答
我才终于明白奔不到的承诺就成了枷锁
现实中幸福永远缺货

请告诉她我不爱她
笑着难过自我惩罚
想终止这一切挣扎
横了心说真心谎话
别告诉她我还想她
恨总比爱容易放下
当泪水堵住了胸口
就让沉默代替所有回答
我不爱我不痛我不懂
我的心早已经掏空
真心话言不由衷
请告诉她我不爱她
笑着难过自我惩罚想
终止这一切挣扎
横了心说真心谎话
别告诉她我还想她
恨总比爱容易放下当泪水堵住了胸口
就让沉默代替所有回答

Autumn (Herbst..)

2008-10-03T15:21:00.008+02:00

Autumn is coming..The weather gets colder..haiZ

Recently in d morning from 11°C till 13°C n at nyte from 9°C till 11°C..cooooolllllll

Must wear more clothes or thick clothes..

Usually when i got up in d morning n go outside(waiting for the bus), my hands are numb..

n u will see the falling leaves along the street,.all d leaves up the tree are yellow colour..Y That is one of the sign that autumn is coming..or

If the trees wear colorful clothes, the days slowly colder and the landscapes in the early morning hours in the fog lose, we know it is autumn. juZ one word can desribe this season..COOooooL!

n.B (Different Language btwn Eng n Ger) :

Spring (Eng) - Frühling (Ger)

Summer (Eng) - Sommer (Ger)

Autumn (Eng) - Herbst (Ger)

Winter (Eng) - Winter (Ger)

7 Destructive Habits of Unsuccessful People :

2008-10-01T15:53:00.006+02:00

Number 1 - They Think, Say, & Do Negative Things.
Yup. They see problems in every opportunity.
They complain that the sun is too hot. They cursed the rain for ruining their plans for the day. They blame the wind for ruining their hair.
They think that everyone is against them. They see the problems but never the solutions.
Every little bit of difficulty is exaggerated to the point of tragedy. They regard failures as catastrophes. They become discouraged easily instead of learning from their mistakes.
They never seem to move forward because they're always afraid to come out of their comfort zones.

Number 2 - They Act Before They Think.
They move based on instinst or impulse. If they see something they like, they buy at once without any second thought.
Then they see something better. They regret & curse for not able to take advantage of the bargain.
Then they spend & spend again until nothing's left. They don't think about the future. What they're after is the pleasure they will experience at present.
They don't think about the consequenses. Those who engage in unsafe sex, criminality, and the like are included in this group.

Number 3 - They Talk Much More Than They Listen
They want to be the star of the show. So they always engage in talks that would make them heroes, even to the point of lying.
Oftentimes they are not aware that what they're saying is not sensible anymore.
When other people advise them, they close their ears because they're too proud to admit their mistakes.
In their mind they're always correct. They reject suggestions because that will make them feel inferior.

Number 4 - They Give Up Easily
Successful people treat failures as stepping stones to success.
Incompetent ones call it quits upon recognizing the first signs of failure.
At first, they may be excited to start an endeavor. But then they lose interest fairly quickly, especially when they encounter errors.
Then they go & search for a new one. Same story & same results. Incompetent people don't have the persistence to go on and fulfill their dreams.

Number 5 - They Try to Bring Others Down To Their Level
Incompetent people envy other successful individuals. Instead of working hard to be like them, these incompetent ones spread rumors and try every dirty trick to bring them down.
They could've asked these successful ones nicely. But no, they're too proud. They don't want to ask advise. Moreover, they're too negative to accomplish anything.

Number 6 - They Waste Their Time
They don't know what to do next. They may just be contented on eating, getting drunk, watching TV, or worse, staring at the blank wall with no thoughts whatsoever to improve their lives.
It's perfectly fine to enjoy once in a while. But time should be managed efficiently in order to succeed. There should be a proper balance between work & pleasure.

Number 7 - They Take the Easy Way Out
If there are two roads to choose from, incompetent people would choose the wider road with less rewards than the narrower road with much better rewards at the end.
They don't want any suffering or hardship. They want a good life.
What these people don't know is that what you reap is what you sow. Efforts & action will not go unnoticed.
If only they would be willing to sacrifice a little, they would be much better off.
Successful people made it through trials & error. They never give up. They are willing to do everything necessary to achieve what they aspire for in life.

99 Facts about Guys and Gals

2008-09-30T23:34:00.007+02:00

Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.
Guys hate other flirts.
guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. .......
Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
Guys cry!!!
Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
Guys can never dream and hope too much.
Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands......
Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow". ......
You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
Guys hate gays!
Guys love their moms.
A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.
Guys are very open about themselves.
It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
No guy is bad when he is courting
Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.......
A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ........(sumtimes).
Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
Guys virtually brag about anything.
Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
Guys think too much.
Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!......(very true).
Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do.They could even hurt themselves physically.
Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends.....
When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me"......
Guys don't really have final decisions.
When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him....
If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
Guys like femininity not feebleness.
Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
Guys love girls who can cook or bake...
Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!......
A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong.
Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed by you or he's criticizing you.
When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
Guys hate girls who overreact. ......
Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships.

Flirting

2008-09-30T22:25:00.006+02:00

HOW GUYS FLIRT:
1. He stares at you alot.
2. He hits you alot. (just play hitting )
3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a converstaion with you
4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mum that day she picked you up from school.
5. He blew off his buds to go see "Brown Sugar" with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.
6. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in the process
7. His voice gets softer when ever you two talk.
8. You hung up on him. He called you back.
9. You were invited by him to a group outing.
10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.
11. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do laugh PRETTY LOUD. Which makes you laugh even harder...
12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation
13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.
14. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, thighs, KNEES,ect.)

HOW GIRLS FLIRT:
1.She calls you by your full name not just a nick name.
2. She hits you softly on the arm and laughs when you say something funny.
3. She flips her hair when she's talking to you.
4. She touches your arm when she talks to you.
5. She says, "No, I'm not telling you who I like!" with a big smile on her face.
6. She asks you who you like or who you would go out with seemingly interested.
7. When you go to the movies with a bunch of your friends and she is almost always next to you.
8. She criticizes you on a girl you like.
9. You catch her staring at you.
10. She plays with your hair or tries to put make up on you.
11. Her friends outside of school and in school know about you, and says she talks about you a lot.
12. She knows your phone number and address. ( stalker much? )
13. She will try and talk, and spend time with you as much as possible

Is it truth?

A rainY daY..

2008-09-30T18:10:00.004+02:00

2dae is not my day..

1st i missed the bus..
I had run so quickly as possible n in the rainy day until i thought dat i would be faint.N although i've run till the door of the bus but the driver didn't wait me..WTH!!!

then i must wait for 15min for the next bus..haiZ!
then coz of it was raining so my clothes got all wet..plus i was hungry hungry..

a miserable day for me..
but i think tomorrow will be better! (althought i've seen weather forecast that tomorrow will be raining n cold..T.T)

JuZ hoping!

我的電台 FM - S.H.E Album

2008-09-25T10:41:00.005+02:00

FM S.H.E (Chinese: 我的電台 FM S.H.E) is Taiwanese girl group S.H.E's 11th album, and was released on September 23, 2008. In this album, the members of the band take on the persona of radio hosts, and the album itself is interspersed with radio station-esque snippets.

Tracklisting
1. 我愛煩惱 wo ai fan nao
2. 宇宙小姐 yu zhou xiao jie
3. 沿海公路的出口 yan hai gong lu de chu kou
4. 天亮了tian liang le
5. 比你賤 bi ni jian
6. 女孩當自強 nv hai dang zi qiang
7. 安靜了an jing le
8. 我是火星人 wo shi huo xing ren
9. 612星球 612 xing qiu
10. 店小二 dian xiao er
11. 月光手札 yue guang shou li
12. 酸甜(S.H.E. and Fahrenheit) xuan tian

S.H.E - 安静了

2008-09-24T21:24:00.006+02:00

只剩下钢琴陪我站在这里
Zhi shen xia gan qing pei wo zhan zai zhe li
梦想中属於我们的婚礼
Meng xiang zhong shu yu wo men de hun li
却成了单人结婚进行曲
Que cheng le dan ren jie hun jing xing qu
在这场爱情角力的拔河里
Zai zhe chang ai qing jiao li de ba he li
爱我还是爱你
Ai wo hai shi ai ni
你选择了自己 wo。~
Ni xuan ze le zi ji
撒娇的可爱的
Sha jiao de ke ai de
迷人的爱哭的
Mi ren de ai ku de
照片裏曾经都是你喜欢的
Zao pian li cheng jing dou shi ni xi huan de
如今我还在原地
Ru jin wo hai zai yuan di
你却走回你的记忆
Ni que zou hui ni de ji yi
你说我爱你太多
Ni shuo wo ai ni tai duo
就快要把你淹没
Jiu kuai yao ba ai yan mo
你害怕幸福
Ni hai pa xing fu
短暂一秒就崩落
Duan zhan yi miao jiu beng luo
分开是一种解脱
Fen kai shi yi zhong jie tuo
让你好好的想我
Rang ni hao hao de xiang wo
我想要的那片天空
Wo xiang yao de na pian tian kong
你是不是能够给我
Ni shi bu shi neng gou gei wo
你说我给你太多
Ni shuo wo gei ni tai duo
却不能给我什么
Que bu neng gei wo shen me
分不清激情承诺永恒或迷惑
Fen bu qing ji qing cheng nuo yong heng huo mi huo
爱情是一道伤口
Ai qing shi yi dao shang kou
我们各自苦痛
Wo men ge zi ku tong
什麼是我最后温柔
Shen me shi wo zui hou wen rou
是因为我太爱你
Shi yin wei wo tai ai ni

周杰伦-稻香

2008-09-24T21:12:00.003+02:00

对这个世界如果你有太多的抱怨
Dui zhe ge shi jie ru guo ni you tai duo de bao yuan
跌倒了就不敢继续往前走
Die dao le jiu bu gan ji xu wang qian zou
为什麼人要这麼的脆弱堕落
Wei shen me ren yao zhe me cui ruo duo luo
请你打开电视看看
Qing ni da kai dian shi kan kan
多少人为生命在努力勇敢的走下去
Duo shao ren wei shen ming zai nu li yong gan de zou xia qu
我们是不是该知足
Wo men shi bu shi gai zhi zu
珍惜一切就算没有拥有
Zhen xi yi qie jiu suan mei you yong you
还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
Hai ji de ni shuo jia shi wei yi de cheng bao
随著稻香河流继续奔跑
Sui zhe dao xiang he liu ji xu ben pao
微微笑小时候的梦我知道
Wei wei xiao xiao shi hou de meng wo zhi dao
不要哭让萤火虫带著你逃跑
Bu yao ku rang ying huo chong dai zhe ni tao pao
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
Xiang jian de ge yao yong yuan de yi kao
回家吧回到最初的美好
Hui jia ba hui dao zui chu de mei hao
不要这麼容易就想放弃就像我说的
Bu yao zhe me rong yi jiu xiang fang qi jiu xiang wo shuo de
追不到的梦想换个梦不就得了
Zhui bu dao de meng xiang huan ge meng bu jiu de le
为自己的人生鲜艳上色
Wei zi ji de ren sheng xian yan shang se
先把爱涂上喜欢的颜色
Xian ba ai tu shang xi huan de yan se
笑一个吧功成名就不是目的
Xiao yi ge ba gong cheng ming jiu bu shi mu di
让自己快乐快乐这才叫做意义
Rang zi ji kuai le kuai le zhe cai jiao zuo yi yi
童年的纸飞机现在终於飞回我手里
Tong nian de zhi fei ji xian zai zhong yu fei hui wo shou li
所谓的那快乐
Suo wei de na kuai le
赤脚在田里追蜻蜓追到累了
Chi jiao zai tian li zhui qing ting zhui dao lei le
偷摘水果被蜜蜂给叮到怕了谁在偷笑呢
Tou zhai shui guo bei mi feng gei ding dao pa le shei zai tou xiao ne
我靠著稻草人吹著风唱著歌睡著了
Wo kao zhe dao cao ren chui zhe feng chang zhe ge shui zhao le
哦哦午后吉它在虫鸣中更清脆
Wo wo wu hou ji ta zai chong ming zhong gen qing cui
哦哦阳光洒在路上就不怕心碎
Wo wo yang guang sa zai lu shang jiu bu pa xin sui
珍惜一切就算没有拥有
Zhen xi yi qie jiu suan mei you yong you
还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
Hai ji de ni shuo jia shi wei yi de cheng bao
随著稻香河流继续奔跑
Sui zhe dao xiang he liu ji xu ben pao
微微笑小时候的梦我知道
Wei wei xiao xiao shi hou de men wo zhi dao
不要哭让萤火虫带著你逃跑
Bu yao ku rang ying huo chong dai zhe ni tao pao
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
Xiang jian de ge yao yong yuan de yi kao
回家吧回到最初的美好
Hui jia ba hui dao zui chu de mei hao

Some changes..

2008-09-24T15:16:00.003+02:00

My frend juZ informed me that she would transferred into Semester two..I admit that she is really brilliant n maybe coZ of that i'm too depend of her..

So suddenly she will not guide me anymore, something like afraid surround me. Will my studies go smoothly? how do i face the future (coZ she hv taught me many things especially german languange) ??

But will i continue be a coward or? On 03.11 i have a presentation about Alkohol and Cigarettes, actually she and i will do it together but now not more. I have to do wif another person that actually comes from Uzbekistan. I can't speak so smoothly Deutsch but i can speak a little English. And he can speak German languange but not so good in English. So how can we do the presentation? HEADACHE!!!

But my english get lousier since i learnt German.HaiZ!

xiao thing,,jia you!!

WeekenD

2008-09-20T15:42:00.002+02:00

Weekend is coming but what i'm doing now?? Juz working..T.T

that's the only way i can earn money..so Dun COMPLAIN anymore ok!!! be obedienT ok..

EnjoY ur Life..

Go to BeaCH

2008-09-19T21:25:00.007+02:00

2dae go to beach..Toll!

Went there wif my friend from school.

See different side from Kiel..The beach's name is Strande (Strand (german) is beach n Strände is the plural nouns of beach), so why its name is Strande not Strand or Strände? I dun knw toO..

At there i saw many yacht..N we could find Cafe, relaxingchairs for us to enjoy the scenery of beach,apartment,etc.

Dun knw hw to describe wht hv i seen but it is a good scenery n i hv never seen it b4..Will remember that times 4ever..

A Tiring Day

2008-09-18T23:03:00.003+02:00

So tired 2day..only thz words can describe what i'm feeling nw..

Went back frm school about 13.00 hours then waited for bus usw(etc) arrived at home around 15.00 hours. Then am 16.00 i have to discuss about Homework wif my friend. Quickly i ate the lunch but i'm too late for the bus am 15.10..Then waited for the next bus around 15.40..

I went wif the bus number 6 n change to number 62 in Bremers Kamp but coz i didn't see the bus number clearly i have entered the bus number 6. That means i went back to the start. Shit, rite? But also funny..Then i must wait for the next bus no. 6 again..Then change with no. 62..FINALLY!!
i met my friend..Tq GOD!

But when i went back from my friend's house i stopped in Bremer Kamp, that was already 20.00 hours n i dun knw that in that time has no longer this no. 6 bus..

So i must wait for 30minutes for the next bus. It was already nyte,alone n cold..WEW!!
Until 21.00 i arrived at home..So TIRED!

What can i learn from what happened 2day is next time must see the time table n the no. of bus clearly dun so rushly..U can't do anything without preparation..

Do u Understand???? I hope next time i won't so careless..

It's already late.Go to sleep now..Gud nyte!

11 Tips How To Reduce Your Stress

2008-09-11T21:30:00.009+02:00

The last holiday is already behind you, and the daily stress harass you again? Do not wait until you take a few days off, but try your tension and your stress between the holiday periods to be minimum as you can. The following tips maybe can help you :

1. Turn on the Environment
Close your eyes, breathe slowly in and out. Imagine, you are located in a beautiful large lawn, or in another place, you like triggers and well-being. Make the exercise once the morning and once in the afternoon for a period of one to two minutes.

2. You laugh about yourself, rather than to annoy
See misfortunes not so doggedly. You were clumsy? You laugh about yourself, rather than to angry. The anger cost you far too much energy.

3. Don't daydreaming
Stay realistic, and galloping thoughts are not in it. Most things are not as bad as we imagine. Make no drama, where none.

4. Go into a LONG WEEKend
If you think that you have many works to do in the company and continuously "overtime", then you are wrong. Because eventually fold. So, nothing to lost! Make a short vacation - say, long weekend - makes you relax and perhaps to see something change.

5. Share your ConCerNS
Instead of solve everything alone, you should confide in friends. First, it helps to get rid all of the problems, and secondly, you get a more realistic view of your problems. And if it runs quite well, you can also find a joint solution.

6. Organize differently
One possibility is that your home and stress caused by the chaos, which is you have created. Check how make your work more effective and reduce confounding factors.

7. Keep an eye on your HEALTH
Without sports before go to busy work? This is not good. Make sure that you have at least twice a week sports. Care to a healthy foods too- less cigarettes, no fast food, more fruits and vegetables. Remember to take your meals daily - don't skip it.

8. Learn to say NO
Rather than to make all of them satisfied, you should take yourself more time to think. Say no instead of yes.

9. Set priorities
Think about what's really important in life. Invest your energy in your A priorities, or just waste it on your basically unimportant things?

10. Make sure you have a balanced life
What is your motto: Life to work - or work to live? The last of course makes more sense. Develop your interests outside of your work - otherwise you will only stay to the job.

11. Enjoy in small things
Sitting in the park just listen the birds singing and enjoy nature. This can make you relaxing and happy.

Just realised something..

2008-09-04T22:58:00.005+02:00

Life still goes on..

Suddenly i have realised that i know nothing about "Deutsch" what i have studied until now..So disappointed.Why?? Am i not enough diligent? Probably..So I must study hard from now. I must! Today i juz bought 2books about "Deutsch als Fremdsprache n Deutsch Übungen". Hope my Deutsch will improve A.S.A.P..

Jia YOU!!!!

1sT dAy ScHooL

2008-09-01T22:35:00.010+02:00

2dae is my 1st dae to school..that's something i've been waiting for.b'coZ of that i've lost something,something that's very important to me but i can't juz return to my past..i hope what i have lost, i can regain it someday n something better.

I met many student from different country,such as Turkey, China, Marokko, Brazil, Mexico,Vietnam,Armenia,Rusia,Khazagstan,etc..But juZ one came from indonesia,that's ME..hoho.sometimes that makes me scared coZ i'm juZ alone n a GIRL.HOw can i live under this circumstances?? OMG..But i juZ pretend know nothing n gather wif them,like an innocent girl.or must i alone? i dun hope that..

Something fresh to me that i went back to home wif ferry.amazing,ryte? Although i juZ knew them but we all speak chinese so that's fast to mix wif each other. They went back from school with ferry so i juZ follow them coZ that makes me curious.since i've come to Germany until now i've never use ferry as publictransportation.So i think i can't pass this rarely chance..I'm quite brave,ryte?an applause for me,pliZ! hehe..
But what makes me shocked that we are "Schwarzfahren"(dun buy ticket).they said that there was five years already they didn't check the ticket.wew!
But during the time wif them (include me 4person) i can see the scenery that i haven't seen b4,some income for me..